Why wives cheat on their husbands: an excursion into the female brain

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

In Europe, the US and here, in the CIS, approximately 42% of women cheat on their spouses. As a rule, men in such situations for the most part try to hide their emotions. However, the fact remains that female infidelity is now one of the most urgent problems of society. And men experience betrayal sometimes even more difficult than the fair sex. First, let's find out why wives cheat on their husbands.

Reasons

Some women yearn to feel loved and desired again. Others, cheating on their spouse, want to take revenge on him for his betrayal. Among the most common reasons why wives cheat on their husbands are the following:

• feeling of loneliness (occurs mainly in housewives);
• unwillingness of a partner to talk with his wife, take an active part in her life and discuss her problems, experiences;
• feeling like a husbandno longer finds her sexually attractive;
• lack of manifestations of tenderness and love from the spouse;
• husband is too passionate about his work or some kind of hobby, spends little time within the walls of the house;
• desire to get rid of everyday life;
• lack of romance in bed;
• boredom or interest;
• desire to feel as strong in personal life as in career;
• offense against spouse.

Sometimes, unexpectedly even for herself, a woman begins to actively communicate with her former partner, school or university love. According to statistics, very often such seemingly innocent communication of "old acquaintances" ends in bed.

"I'll kill that !" or… this one?

Practice shows that in our age, when there is practically no censorship in literature, the press, on TV, almost all women sooner or later think about getting some kind of sexual experience with a representative of their gender. Why do wives cheat on their husbands with other girls? There are reasons for this as well.

The most banal among them is the lack of understanding on the part of men. Having been disappointed several times in a variety of partners, a woman may think that no one will understand her better than another.

Many are driven by ordinary curiosity, the desire for new non-standard sensations (both physically and emotionally).

How do I know?

In fact, the signs of female infidelity are always striking. Problemlies in the fact that many devoted and loving husbands do not want to notice them to the last, and they start fussing even when it is almost impossible to save the marriage.

The first sign of infidelity is that the wife begins to drastically limit her personal space (access to a mobile phone, social media accounts and a computer in general). Like men, women, when starting a new relationship, begin to pay much more attention to their appearance. Another alarming signal is that the wife has a new group of friends or girlfriends with whom she spends almost all her free time, without showing much desire to introduce her husband to them.

The most unpleasant sign of infidelity is, of course, chilling in bed. If she goes to bed earlier or later than her husband, explaining this for various reasons, it is likely that the man has become uninteresting to her and she simply avoids sex with him.

Even in terms of quarrels, everything changes: if before they looked like the beginning of the Third World War, then the girl who cheats will not care at all. But at the same time, she will begin to focus on all the shortcomings of the missus, which she did not notice at all before.

Forgiveness cannot be reconciled: where to put a comma?

So, we have considered the main reasons why wives cheat on their husbands. Listed and ways to find out about the infidelity of his beloved. However, the most important question remains - is it worth it to forgive betrayal at all?

There is an opinion among the people that there are wives who never cheat on their spouses, but nothe kind that would only change once.

In addition, if for a man cheating is nothing more than a physical desire, then a woman cheats on her husband emotionally long before the first sex with her lover. Forgive betrayal or not? The answer to this question must be sought only in the depths of your heart.

P. S. But for those whose wives have taken a mistress, you can give two pieces of advice at once: break off relations or come at the most inopportune moment and … join!:) If your wife is dear to you, in this case you can just let her feel that you are "on the same side of the barricade." Perhaps, after such a relationship, they will become even better than before.