Signs for a wedding: what is possible, what is not allowed for parents, guests, newlyweds? Customs and signs for the wedding for the bride

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2024-01-07 12:45

A wedding is perhaps one of the most important events in a person's life. This is an important step that radically changes lives, connecting two loving hearts into a single whole - a family.

Wedding chores are very exciting for both the newlyweds and their loved ones, relatives and guests. Every detail is thought out, every minute of the celebration, aimed at arranging the happiness of the young. In a word, wedding! Signs and customs on this solemn day become especially relevant. Their purpose is to protect the spouses from failures in marital happiness and to preserve love for many years. Of course, not everyone believes in wedding omens (what can and cannot be done on this significant day), many are skeptical of them, consider them prejudices, but their knowledge has not harmed anyone yet.

Signs before the wedding

• Wedding signs for the bride broadcast thata wedding on a new moon - to a happy new life, with a growing moon - to a rapid increase in money capital, on a full moon - life will be like a full bowl. If you marry during the waning moon, then all hardships and sorrows will go away.

• If a sneeze attacks the newlyweds or relatives on the wedding day in the morning, it is fortunate.
• The groom stumbled over the threshold of the chosen one's house - there will be another wedding.
• Family life will work out if the bride on the night before the wedding puts on a nightgown inside out and puts a mirror under the pillow.
• Wedding signs for the bride say: if the bride lost her glove or broke the mirror before the wedding, this is a bad omen.
• On the eve of the wedding, the bride should not see the groom under any pretext, and even more so the future husband should not see her in a wedding dress, otherwise the marriage will be unhappy.
• Until the moment of the wedding (painting), the bride should not see herself in the mirror in full dress.
• You can't give each other photos with your own image the day before.

Signs about clothes and jewelry

• Signs for the bride on the wedding day say that a happy chosen one must be married in shoes with a closed toe and heel. Then happiness will not leak out of the house. And if you put a copper coin in your right shoe, then the life of the young will be successful and rich. To marry in sandals - to a barefoot life.
• If the bride helps to put on a wedding dressa woman who has successfully lived in marriage for 7 years, then the newlywed will be he althy and successful.
• The bride should not allow her friend to stand in front of her in front of the mirror, otherwise the latter will beat off the groom. The same applies to the groom and his friends.
• In order to protect against the evil eye, newlyweds need to fasten a safety pin on their clothes with the head down: for the groom - in the area of \u200b\u200battaching the boutonniere, for the bride - from the inside of the hem of the dress. It is also recommended for the happy chosen one to make a certain number of stitches with blue threads on the hem of the dress from the inside: as the signs for the wedding of the newlyweds say, this will protect the newlywed from the evil eye.

• Old shoes on the bride - good luck in the new family. Therefore, a day or two before the celebration, it is recommended to walk around in shoes that will be worn at the wedding.
• Pearls worn by the bride at the wedding - to her tears.
• Jewelry should not be worn for a solemn event - only costume jewelry - this is what folk signs for a wedding say.
• What can and can't parents do? The mothers of both young ones must wear one-piece dresses (not suits) so that the family life of their children is without contention.

Wedding dress

Wedding and wedding signs are one whole, because the solemn event is so significant that every detail should be paid attention to. This also applies to the bride's wedding dress:

• It is recommended for a future wife to sew a lovage leaf into her wedding dress so that there is lovestronger.
• No one should be allowed to try on a wedding dress, even after the wedding.
• It is believed: the longer the dress, the longer the family life.
• A young dress should be one-piece, not separate (for example, a corset and a skirt), so that there is no separate life.
• Dress and underwear must be white.



• Wedding dress should only be worn over the head - not through the legs.
• It is recommended to keep a wedding dress for life and not to sell in any case in order to avoid the breakdown of marriage.

Bridal bouquet

• Wedding omens (what can and cannot be done to young people) state with clear certainty that in no case should the groom give anyone a bouquet of his beloved until he gives it himself.

  

• The bride should protect her bouquet all the festive evening; if it is released, happiness will fly away. At a wedding feast, you can put it on the table in front of you, and if there is a great need, then give it to the groom or your mother to hold.
• Bridal bouquet fell to the floor - be another wedding in this house.
• The one of the bridesmaids who catches the bridal bouquet will be the next to get married.

Wedding ring

Oh, these signs for the wedding! What can and cannot be done for newlyweds with wedding rings? This question is very exciting for young people.

• Buying wedding rings is a dutygroom.
• Rings must be smooth, without stones and notches, so that life is smooth, without pitfalls.
• The bride's ring should be wider than the groom's ring.

• No one should be given wedding rings to try on, either before or after the wedding.

  

• On the day of the wedding, no rings other than the engagement ring can be worn.
• Marriage with parental rings is a repetition of their family relationship.
• Lose a wedding ring - to parting, family breakup.
• It's bad luck to drop your wedding ring before it's on your finger.

Before leaving for the registry office

• When young people go from their parental home to the wedding palace, they should be sprinkled with money and rye - for a happy and rich family life. Repeat the same when they leave the registry office.

• When driving away from home, cars should honk loudly, thus scaring away all evil spirits.

  

• On the way to the place of painting, young people should not look back, so as not to become attached to a past life.
• When the bride goes to church, the mother gives her a family heirloom (brooch, cross, bracelet, ring) to protect her in family life.
• In order for sisters to get married, it is recommended for the bride when leaving her parental homediscreetly pull the tablecloth off the parent table.

On the way to the registry office and the registry office

The road towards an important event is an important part of the solemn process. Therefore, it is also worth considering the signs for the wedding. What can and cannot be done on the way to the registry office for young people, their parents and guests?

• You must not cross the path of the bride and groom, so as not to deprive them of good luck in life. If such a danger exists, then the witness and the witness should go a little ahead.
• You need to go to the registry office in different cars so that there is still time to think about such important changes in life.
• The more confusing the route that the bride and groom travel, the happier their family life will be. In the old days, wedding trains chose the most intricate routes to the church in order to mislead evil spirits in this way.
• If a cat ran across the road, you need to take a different route.
• No one should pass between the bride and groom for a happy and peaceful family life.
• After leaving the registry office, the young people go out holding hands. Whoever has the upper hand will be the head of the house.
• If you touch the rings of the bride and groom, then you will soon be walking at your wedding. If after the registry office someone crosses the path of the bride and groom, then family life will not work out. This is how time-tested signs for a wedding broadcast.

Do's and Don'ts on your wedding day?

• Before entering the house, young people need to break a plate for happiness.
• The bride in the housebrings in the hands of the already legal spouse to carry her in her arms all her life.
• Throughout the evening, parents must ensure that no one adjusts the clothes of the young.

• Dance at the wedding, the spouses should only dance together. If a dance with parents is planned, then after it the parents must reunite their children.

  

• If the bride's heel is broken, this is a "limping" family life.
• If the dress is torn at the wedding, then there will be an evil mother-in-law.

Wedding

• A box of wedding rings during the wedding process is taken by one of the friends who wants to get married as soon as possible.
• Wedding in a hat - to divorce, in a short veil - to sick children, without a veil - to deception and suffering.

• The wedding candle should be protected and lit to help with the first birth.

  

• After the wedding, the young people should look together in one mirror at the same time - this is a sign of a long and happy life.
• If it started to rain during the wedding, the young family will be prosperous.
• If the bride drops her handkerchief while standing under the crown, be her widow.
• Whose candle burns first during the wedding, he will die first.
• If the candle suddenly goes out, the young will have a difficult family life or an early death.
• Weddingcandles must be blown out at the same time, this will be the key to a long and happy life.

Witnesses

• If the witnesses are divorced, then the marriage of the young will be in danger of disintegration.
• If the witnesses are married, it's unfortunate.
• If the witnesses are a married couple, their marriage will fall apart.

Feast

• Before entering the hall, the newlyweds treat each other with s alty bread. This should be the last time they annoy each other.
• After the registry office, the most revered relative escorts the young around the festive table three times, this symbolizes the inextricable bond of a married couple.
• Be sure to break the first glass of champagne - for good luck! If dishes break at a wedding, it's good luck.
• At the wedding table, young people do not need to sit on chairs, but on the same bench, so that family life is friendly.
• There is such an interesting sign: if the bride accidentally drank from the glass of her betrothed, then she will take his entire salary from him.
• So that the young always have money, the newlyweds put a handkerchief with dry cockroaches under the bench.
• If one of the guests dropped a piece of food on the floor, the young ones will always have a lot of treats.
• If a bridesmaid accidentally stepped on the hem of her wedding dress, it means that she will be married soon.
• If a young woman knocked over a full glass, the spouse will drink.
• If there are a lot of children at the wedding, this is for a fun and noisy family life.
• The wedding cake is a special decoration of the table. The bride needs to cut it, and the groom supports the knife. Young people are treated to the first piece of cake - for good luck.

Bitter

As you know, not a single wedding in Russia is complete without “Bitter!”. This custom is quite old and arose as follows: the young woman used to go around all the guests with a tray, on which they put money. There was a cup on the tray, the guest drank it and said: “Bitter!” - as a sign that vodka was drunk, not water. Further, the invitee kissed the bride, thus sweetening the bitterness received from alcohol. Gradually, this method was replaced by the requirement of a kiss from the spouses.

Gifts

An important aspect of the solemn day are wedding gifts. The omens regarding this part of the big day are:

• You can not give sharp objects: knives, forks, carrying aggressive energy that can fill a new family. If such a present was nevertheless presented, the giver should be given a handful of coins so that there are no troubles in life.
• You can’t give a watch as a gift, because it will count the minutes and seconds of life together, and it will last as long as the gift will work.
• It is recommended that spouses choose their own bedding, because intimate life is a private matter, not a public one.
• You can not present towels and handkerchiefs, so as not to doom the newlyweds to tears and sadness.
• Icons can be given only by the closest people: parents, grandmothers, godparents, because it is with such a valuable gift that the energy of the family is partially transferred to the hands of the young. If any ofinvitees decided to make such a present, then the icon must first be consecrated in the church.
• Also, you can not give antiques that preserve the energy of the previous owners. After all, they will influence the young family in their own way, and such an influence can not always be good.
• You can't give a mirror. This is a magical object, and what is reflected in it is an astral projection of everything that a person sees in reality. As a wedding gift, the mirror will become a door to a parallel world (illusion), which will provoke young people to lead a double life.
• You cannot present pearl jewelry to the bride, otherwise the latter will often cry and grieve in family life.
• Also, guests should not give rings and cufflinks with amber, the energy of which can cause career failures. Such gifts are immediately recommended to be re-gifted.
• For a smooth road of life, the bride needs to present a white tablecloth as a gift.
• You can't give red roses. It is better for them to prefer a bouquet of wildflowers from daisies, cornflowers, lungwort and others, symbolizing love and tenderness. Lilies of the valley will be original as a wedding bouquet - a symbol of romance, happiness and fidelity. You can opt for a violet - a flower that symbolizes the purity of the soul and thoughts.

Signs for guests

Guests who came to congratulate the newlyweds should also know some signs for the wedding. What can and cannot be guests on this important day for young people?

• You can not come to the wedding in black clothes.
• Number of guests at the weddingmust be odd.
• Guests should be seated according to their age. The youth sits down with the bride and groom, further in seniority. The oldest people sit down from the youngest at the opposite end of the table.
• Invited from the side of the bride sit on her left side, the groom - on the right. After all, the left part of the space symbolizes the feminine, the right - the masculine.
• Places for parents at the end of the festive table.

When to walk the wedding?

• The best days for wedding and painting are Saturday and Sunday. By the way, Americans prefer Monday for such events. In terms of time frames, the second half of the day is most successful.
• Marry in May - a century toil.
• Previously, weddings were never held during fasting days: Great, Christmas, Assumption and Petrov. Christmas time (between Christmas - January 7 - until Epiphany - January 20) was also not recommended for marriage.
• Odd numbers are considered the best for marriage - 3rd, 5th, 7th, 9th and those that add up to the above.
• You can't schedule a wedding on the 13th.

Weather

• Snow or rain for a wedding - fortunately.
• Strong wind - to a windy life.
• If the weather was sunny on the day of the wedding, and then it suddenly started to rain, the family will live in abundance.
• If a storm breaks out during the wedding, be unfortunate.
• If a hard frost hits on a solemn day for the newlyweds, then the first boy will be born - strong and he althy.