Unfortunately, unfaithful spouses are a frequent phenomenon. But if the husband has changed how to behave correctly, most women do not know. And it is unlikely that anyone will be able to say in advance exactly how they will manifest themselves upon learning of such an unpleasant incident. However, it has long been known that there is no ordinary friendship between two people of different sexes. Even if both talk about it, you should understand: where there is friendship, there is also sympathy. And she, as you know, can easily grow into something more.
If the husband has changed how to behave, each woman decides for herself.
But don't waste your nerves. The first thing to do is to understand whether the information is reliable. Think, remember how your relationship with your spouse has been building lately. If this fact turns out to be true, then try to understandreason. If everything is in order sexually at home, then most likely he was looking for moral support on the side. To solve any problem, its awareness is required, especially if the husband has cheated. How to behave? Talk to your husband, but the conversation should not be an angry and accusing monologue, it should be constructive. Do it in a similar situation to a woman
it can be very difficult, so prepare in advance: scroll through your head several times how the dialogue might develop, try to get used to it as much as possible. If you do not want to end the relationship, then you should not use phrases about moving away from each other, putting your spouse before a choice.
Of course, it is impossible to solve the problem quickly if the husband is cheating. How to behave further? Even if this act turned out to be a momentary weakness, it is necessary to begin to act. For example, you should find out who "encroached" on family peace and well-being. This does not mean at all that it is necessary to calculate the opponent and grab her hair. It is necessary to influence the man very carefully: if it turned out, for example, that this is the first wife, then it is worth leading to the fact that he can communicate with the child, and the relationship with the ex-wife hurts you. You should try to focus more on your feelings, pronounce them.
It is very important to cope with your emotions if the husband cheated. How to behave if alltime to cry or swear? Don't hold back your feelings. I want to cry - cry, you are angry - turn your husband's photo into shreds, burn it. However, it is better to show such impulses when no one is watching. Do not share with friends and relatives what happened in the family. After all, in the whirlpool of feelings that overwhelmed you, you can’t understand how your future life will turn out, perhaps everything will still be fine.
If you decide that the family is more expensive, realized that you still love, then when deciding what to do if your husband is cheating, do not rush. Give him support. With a serious relationship, your spouse will not be able to live long on two fronts. Remember that psychologists have proven that if a man does not leave in the first year of infidelity, then it is even more difficult for him to take this step further. Therefore, if he asked to wait, to give him time to sort himself out, then it should be done.
Of course, the advice given above is based on rationality. However, more often a woman does not determine how to behave if her husband is cheating, because emotions and resentment come to the fore. If you have no strength to cope with them, contact a psychologist, with his help you will decide what behavior will be optimal, learn to manage your anger and feelings.