Why do girls like bad boys?

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

How often do we see that a young girl prefers a bully and a loser, an older girl suffers rough treatment and inattention, and an adult woman leaves a reliable and prudent husband for an unpromising but handsome gigolo. Why do girls like bad guys?

First, let's define what is meant by the words "bad guy". Take a closer look at these very "bad guys". Are they losers? Weaklings? Nerds with glasses? Probably not. All these so-called bad guys, despite their glaring flaws, have an important quality - charisma. Their charm, temperament, strength in the eyes of a girl weighs more than sobriety and reliability.

Why?

Because for girls, emotions and masculine qualities of a partner are very important. Not all girls have the sobriety of their mothers. Moreover, even older women deep down long for bright feelings, and reliable, but boring men are simply tolerated, finding them "profitable". Every girl, no matter how sensible she isno matter how deep down she wants to see a strong person nearby. And it is not their fault that strength is often combined with glaring shortcomings. Very often, girls simply do not have a choice. They are surrounded by either positive bores or rough machos. And they give preference to the latter … But is a strong, but reliable man loses to the same strong, but with obvious shortcomings in the form of frivolity, self-confidence, rudeness? Most likely not.

In fact, the concept of "bad" in this case should be replaced by another word - "strong" or "temperamental". Then the question "Why do girls like bad guys?" wouldn't stand at all. And the good guys would know they had a chance. How often do we see that reliability and prudence are combined with a purely masculine weakness. It does not necessarily mean the physical complexion of a man. Weakness in relationships, in life, inability to stand up for oneself - all this signals to a woman on a subconscious level: this man is not able to give he althy and strong offspring.

"Girls love jocks" is another misconception. Of course, not a single girl will refuse her chosen one to have a beautiful, courageous appearance. But this is not the main thing for a woman. It is important for her to feel the strength of her chosen one. And this strength can manifest itself in anything: in leadership among one's own kind, in the ability to earn money, in the ability to achieve one's own goals, etc.

So the question "Why do girls like bad guys?" we are compelled to answer - this is not entirely true. Girls don't like bad guys at all. They love the manly.

On the other hand, there are indeed girls who like to feel like victims. It is these women who do not leave drug addicts, alcoholics, tolerate idle husbands and the like. In such cases, the answer to the question "Why do girls like bad guys?" quite different - there may be several reasons, but they are all related to the internal problems of the girl herself. She either wants to assert herself in this way: "I'll save him, get him out of the mud," or she has complexes and is not sure of herself: "I can't find anyone else," or she just likes to feel like a benefactor.

Surprisingly, most girls outgrow their passion for "bad boys" with age. They learn to distinguish true strength from external tinsel and begin to appreciate those qualities that will allow you to create a strong, reliable family in the real world, and not on a subconscious level.