When a difficult age comes

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

Teenagers are tender and aggressive creatures at the same time. The difficult age usually begins at 13 years of age. When this period ends is difficult to say for sure. It all depends on the personality itself, its worldview and the attitude of others. The peak of rebellion falls on the period from 15 to 17 years. This is due to a change in the psychological background of adolescents.

Difficult age is synonymous with transitional age. Teenagers no longer consider themselves children, they begin to think that they are adults and self-sufficient people. Rebelliousness comes from the fact that parents, more often than not, still see them as children. Most conflicts occur on the basis of endless prohibitions and disagreements with them. If you want to ban something, it is better to present it in the form of advice or a request. Try to find another hobby for your child that will be a substitute for what you want to ban.

The most difficult age is during puberty. Not only the psychological background of the individual changes, but also her body. According to statistics, over the past five years, the age of entry into the first intimate relationship has reached 14 years. These are the consequences of a difficult transitionperiod.

In most cases, intimate conversations do not bring positive results. How should parents behave? First, do not take the child as a child. If a teenager considers himself an adult, then he should be treated accordingly. This applies not only to conversations, but also to the requirements for it. Just don't do it with pathos and mockery. Don't challenge your child. Secondly, it is worth paying more attention to what your child is fond of, with whom he communicates, where he happens to be. Perhaps in some way your interests will coincide. This will help rally. A difficult age is such because a teenager feels misunderstood, an unrecognized genius. Try to understand him. Or at least pretend you understand. But don't overdo it. Teenagers are particularly sensitive to falsehood.

Difficult adolescence is accompanied by the development of sexuality. It is important for parents to note this point. What for? In order to develop a child's self-esteem, normal self-esteem and taste in time. The last one is important. If there is a taste, then a teenager will never commit rash acts. For example, drinking cheap alcohol and indulging in intimate pleasures with the first comer.

A difficult age is, of course, a period of rebellion against parents and their foundations. Nevertheless, teenagers can always be negotiated. If you know how to interest them, then you can always avoid conflicts. Whether to indulge whims? In moderation. If the whim is explainedreasonable, then you can go forward. It is important that understanding always reigns in the house. Talk with your child more often, discuss his problems (even if they are not serious, in your opinion), take an interest in his affairs. Studying is not all that should interest you. Rebellion comes from misunderstanding. If you love your child, then give him as much attention as possible.