Cool woman birthday scenario - interesting ideas and recommendations

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

When going to celebrate a birthday, most people prepare treats, clean the room and invite guests or go to a cafe. At the same time, few people think that they can celebrate in a different way.

Hearing about the birthday scenario, women usually immediately refuse, arguing this with various motives. The most common reasons for not wanting to celebrate according to the script are “need to hire someone”, “it’s expensive”, “can’t do it at home”, “I don’t want a farce” and the like.

Therefore, you can write a script and give a loved one a holiday without informing her. Of course, when preparing all surprises, one should take into account the age, character traits and tastes of the birthday girl.

Morning is part of the scenario

The script for a woman's birthday may include not only an evening celebration withcompetitions, presenter and other attributes, but also the whole day or its separate fragments.

Morning is an important part of the holiday, but it is usually forgotten about it. Morning hours create a mood and set the tone for the whole day, including the evening feast. Therefore, all actions performed in relation to the birthday girl should proceed from how the birthday will be celebrated in the evening.

For example, if the scenario of a woman's birthday implies a theme, then the morning should begin with the attributes of the evening. When planning a feast in the form of a "Royal Banquet", which is now very fashionable, in the morning you should leave a "royal" dress or other attribute in the bedroom. In the absence of props in the evening - costumes, thematically selected music and other things, that is, with a modest budget version of the scenario, you must also leave the attributes.

If the theme of the "Royal Banquet" is included as a basis in the script for a woman's home birthday, then you can leave the crown made by the children themselves or purchased in a jewelry store. A gift, no matter what it is, a children's craft or a ball gown, should be accompanied by a themed postcard with an explanation.

For example: “Good morning, Your Majesty! Let me remind you what day it is today. Your birthday. If a woman is not aware of the thematic feast, there is no need to explain what awaits her either in a postcard, which actually plays the role of a note, or in words. When questioning, you should laugh it offand ask to wear a present in the evening.

The same should be done if any other thematic scenario of a woman's birthday is applied. Only the types of morning surprises differ. For example, for the theme of the 20-40s, a vintage outfit or a donut dress is suitable. But you can limit yourself to boas or gloves, stockings with a seam - something related to the theme of the evening. On the theme of "Disco" you can leave butterfly glasses. For a pirate theme - a bandage, a plush parrot or a saber. Fantasy is limited only by the theme of the banquet and does not depend on its scale and degree of stylization.

Morning flowers are a cost-saving script element

In addition to the present, hinting at the upcoming evening, flowers are an obligatory attribute of the morning. It doesn't have to be limited to one big bouquet. You can do it differently and spend less money. Of course, when a scenario for a woman's birthday is being considered or discussed, it is not customary to remember about saving finances. More precisely, to speak about this nuance out loud.

But nevertheless, in every celebration there are elements that allow you to save money if you approach them with imagination. Each scenario of a woman's birthday, the ideas of which can be completely different - from a trip in a limousine to fireworks over the nearest pond, includes the presence of flowers not only in the design, but also in the form of a present.

A huge bouquet with the appropriate design is what is traditionally purchased from florists on such a day. It makes sense to change this moment and forget about the "birthday - bouquet" template. Of course, if there is a desire andthe opportunity to give a "square of flowers", then this must be done. However, most families cannot afford such gestures.

Every flower shop has short inexpensive multi-colored roses. Usually they stand somewhere in the corner or at the very bottom and do not catch the eye. The height of the stem is about 15-30 cm, they are different. We need just such flowers and in large quantities and all colors.

One rose is left on the bed, but this should be done carefully so that the birthday girl does not damage the flower in a dream. The rest of the flowers are scattered or, if there are animals or children in the house, they are attached, laid out everywhere along the usual morning "route". That is, a corridor, a bath, a toilet room, a kitchen. Every corner of the space should be used.

If you have time and desire, you can attach a note to each flower. It can be a small postcard tied to a stem, or just a piece of colored note paper strung on a stem.

The bottom line is that the birthday girl, moving around the house for the usual morning procedures, collects a bouquet and reads the notes. This will please much more than a "bucket" filled with a hundred Dutch hybrids, and besides, it will also surprise. At the same time, the cost of flowers will be reduced by at least half. In addition, you can present in this way not only roses, but also any other plants, from asters to field herbs - it all depends on the taste of the birthday girl.

This way of presenting flowers in the morning has other advantages. Firstly, there will be bouquets in the evening, from guests, and secondlyNotes can correspond with their content to the thematic presentation and style direction of the upcoming evening, which will allow flowers to fully integrate into the scenario of an anniversary or birthday. It will be very pleasant for a woman to collect roses and read annotations, and family members will have time to make coffee for the birthday girl and prepare breakfast without her direct presence in the kitchen.

What to write in flower notes?

Texts should correspond to how it is planned to celebrate. If a cool birthday script is used for a woman, then you can draw emoticons, write jokes, wishes, funny questions, and so on. You can even take a collection of jokes and paint them line by line, numbering them. It looks like this: "(line from a joke), No. 5, page 3." That is, the woman found the 5th line from the 3rd joke. There are no limits for imagination, except for the theme of the entire design of the celebration. You can also write simple wishes or compliments.

How to fill notes without using texts?

Some themed scenarios allow you to use scattered flowers in a more interesting way than just accompanying them with written words.

For example, the themes of queens, pirates, and everything where there might be treasure provide a great opportunity for decorating flower notes. You need to go to any market that sells materials for needlework and buy imitation "jewels". You don’t need to take the same ones, stones, that is, fiberglass products imitating them, must bedifferent. You should also purchase a wooden chest-box. It is worth choosing based on two parameters - the subject and volume of purchased rhinestones. "Treasures" must fit inside. Externally, the chest should match the theme, because the royal treasury and the pirate treasure look different.

You can just stick stones on the notes. If there is time and desire, then with a pirate theme, notes can be issued in the form of a map indicating the path to the chest.

The rhinestones themselves will come in handy in the evening. They can be handed out as a reward for winning contests, as a thank you for congratulations, and so on. If a home birthday scenario for a woman is implemented using a small amount of paraphernalia, then “treasures” can be presented for a successful performance of a song in karaoke or a good toast.

Are jokes always appropriate?

A cool script for a woman's birthday is not always appropriate. For example, there can be no talk of any jokes when celebrating anniversaries with marks "50", "60" and so on. But this does not mean at all that there is no place for jokes on such dates. Humor, jokes, fun and jokes are completely different things, although many holiday agencies present them as synonyms. That is why any used cool script for a woman's birthday causes reviews that are far from always positive, including those left by the birthday girls themselves.

In order for the holiday to be filled with laughter and fun, a funny scenario must take into account several points:

• age of the birthday girl and guests;
• type of celebration - home celebration or banquet in a restaurant;
• presence of themes, style, use of costumes, show programs;
• tastes, perceptions and mentality.

For example, a common joke offered by many agencies and consisting in the fact that a “life-size puppet” depicting a famous person comes with congratulations seems to be universal. However, a lady at 60 is unlikely to understand the "black humor" performed by the "Obama" doll. That is, when ordering such ready-made jokes, you need to find out in detail what exactly the content of the congratulation will be.

Don't decorate a hall or a room with emoticons, Simpsons, chat stickers and other elements that are understandable to every middle-aged office worker, but completely alien to a lady of 70.

How to celebrate fun at an elegant age?

Very often, the grandchildren of the birthday girl try to use the script for a woman's birthday, with humor and jokes. But usually they refuse this style of holding a celebration, having looked at the offered ready-made options. Thinking over the celebration on your own often confuses, because what the grandmother laughs at, the grown-up grandchildren simply cannot imagine, but they want to please the birthday girl.

Of course, if you have the funds, you can simply invite Petrosyan or other comedy artists whose TV shows are watched by an elderly lady. However, most families still cannot afford it.

Meanwhile notsuch an idea must be abandoned. The scenario of a woman's birthday in years, provided that the celebration takes place in a restaurant or in any spacious room, in nature - wherever it is not difficult to "mount" a stage or its likeness, it will only benefit from the presence of conversational artists.

Organizing everything at an affordable cost is not as difficult as it seems. You just need to move away from stereotyped thinking and think about where to find an artist. There are theaters in every city, and there are always those who are busy in the roles of "the meal is served." Such an artist will be happy to earn extra money at a birthday party and it will cost much less than hiring through agencies. If there are theater universities or schools of culture in the city, you need to go there.

How do guest artists joke?

When the artists are found, it is worth taking up the repertoire. This is also not as difficult as it seems. Most importantly, the organizer does not need to "reinvent the wheel" and try to be original. You should watch real comedy shows of those years when the birthday girl was 20-40. And make a potpourri for the whole evening from what you see.

That is, the performance of artists lasts no more than 10-15 minutes. Between their performances, toasts are made, contests are held, and so on. How many exits there will be depends on the specific situation.

To accurately "get into the top ten", you can remember the names of the artists and a few jokes. After that, you should visit your grandmother and casually ask if there were such pop numbers in her youth. Usually, older ladies begin to willingly share their memories and give out their ownassessment. You need to listen carefully and remember what grandmother liked, what she laughed at, and what did not evoke emotions. The information obtained in this way should be used in choosing the repertoire for the performances of artists.

Do you need ditties?

In the theme of the birthday "Woman 60" agency scripts are usually full of all sorts of elements of folklore. These options should be used with caution. Not every elderly lady will be delighted with the need to sing ditties to the accompaniment of an accordion. That is, when choosing a scenario for an anniversary, it follows from the preferences and tastes of the birthday girl.

Usually, the taste of guests of the same age as the hero of the occasion coincides with her personal preferences. Therefore, when choosing competitions and programs, you need to focus on the birthday girl.

What to consider when celebrating in age?

When thinking through the holiday, we must not forget that the birthday script is addressed to a woman. Organizers should be careful with competitions and other content of the celebration program.

Before you include any competition in the celebration program, you need to make sure that it will not cause inconvenience or embarrassment. This is a very important moment for the success of a celebration addressed to an elderly woman. For example, if a lady celebrating her birthday suffers from flatulence, she should not be forced to engage in active activities in the center of the hall. The same applies to guests of elegant age.

That is, for the holiday to be a success, every moment in it should be comfortable and convenient for those present.

Is theredifference between "55" and "60"?

On a 55-year-old woman's birthday, almost any scenario will do. It could be a fun clown party, a pompous Royal Banquet, a 1930s Chicago style night, whatever.

The defining moment in the intention to make a surprise holiday should, of course, be the preferences of the birthday girl, but besides this, her dreams should also be taken into account. And the best option is the integrity of the script and the main gift.

For example, a woman wants to see Paris. The celebration should be styled accordingly. And what it will be - "The Three Musketeers", "Amelie" or something else - depends on the ideas of the birthday girl herself. At the end of such an evening, a ticket to Paris is given.

A similar scenario for a woman's birthday at home is also possible. Moreover, a home party is more appropriate with an expensive gift. When choosing between renting a restaurant and, say, an extra week in France, extra days in Paris should be preferred. When celebrating at home, you should decorate the room not with banal balloons, but with views of Montmartre, bouquets and garlands of flowers in the French style, and so on.

Of course, the same should be done if the birthday girl dreams not of Paris, but of something else. For example, your own cottage would be a good gift. Oddly enough, many women would like to have a summer house with a garden. The selection of contests or other content of the holiday should hint at the last final gift, regardless of the style of the celebration.

The age of 55 for women is golden. During these years, ladies are like men in a state of midlife crisis, that is, they really want to have time to fulfill their dreams and desires. It's about personal desires, not about raising children or raising grandchildren. This psychological moment is the key to a successful celebration.

At 60, everything is different. The ladies are in no hurry. Such anniversaries require solemnity and some pomp, they should be held in restaurants or cafes with a large number of guests. The scenario "Birthday of a woman" at home with a date of "60 years" is doable, but not desirable.

Though, this point depends on the personal situation. It depends on how many guests the birthday girl will have who are at her age, how many relatives, friends and acquaintances will be able to attend the holiday and, of course, on living conditions. In a cramped apartment it is difficult to celebrate even 5-10 elderly people, without taking into account any entertainment components, but in a country cottage it is quite possible.

But in the general tradition of organizing birthdays, it is customary at 55 to focus on gifts, and at 60 to arrange a magnificent solemn feast, even if the presents are modest because of this.

Are there any features for the date "45"?

In the scenario of the birthday "45 years old woman" you can include something that is inappropriate for an older age. This is the golden date for gags, goofiness, theatrical costumes and all the crazy things you can imagine. Of course, all the recklessness must be thought out.

For 45 years old, the best birthday option is a costume party with quests. But the choice of theme depends on the preferences of the birthday girl and the budget.

How to write your script?

A ready-made script for congratulating a woman on her birthday, taken as a basis and adjusted for individual characteristics, is a good option for those who do not have time to organize a celebration, and hiring an agency is impossible for some reason.

But you can go the other way, that is, create your own script. First you need to write down everything that you would like to include in the birthday celebration. It's not just about the evening banquet, but about the day as a whole. Then you should distribute the recorded components of the holiday by time of day.

Distribution example:

• morning - flowers, present, breakfast;
• day - SMS congratulations, lunch at a restaurant, a walk in the park with children;
• evening - feast.

Of course, in addition to general words, you should list all those elements of the script that will be involved. Therefore, each time period will require its own piece of paper.

This is necessary to eliminate the excess. For example, there is an idea to arrange a “Puzzle” at breakfast. That is, by associations, the birthday girl must guess the components of the dish that was prepared for her. And a similar scenario is present during a walk - the children ask leading questions to the birthday girl, and she associatively guesses which attraction she will go to. One of the elements can be safely excluded.

The one should be crossed outmini-scenario, which is in a time period filled with other entertainment. For example, if there are 4 ideas for the morning, and 2 for the park, then you need to remove them from the first half of the day.

Also, not only the uniformity of the workload of the whole day, but also the approximate cost will become clear. This is also an important point. For example, if there are several ideas for lunchtime - a picnic in the park, a romantic trip in a limousine, lunch at a restaurant, a trip to a museum, or something else, then by comparing all the estimated costs, you can exclude any elements from the day budgetary considerations.

The result is a clear general scenario for the day as a whole. After that, you should start planning an evening feast. Regardless of whether a holiday is held in a restaurant or in an ordinary room, there are common points for an evening scenario of any thematic focus and complexity, figuratively speaking, a “skeleton”, a basis.

• Reception - the birthday girl greets each guest, accepts congratulations, flowers and gifts.
• Preliminary part - the guests sit down, change clothes and so on, the birthday girl arranges flowers in the water or asks someone to do it and removes the presents, this is important - the donated should not “roll” in the corridor or in the corner of the restaurant hall.
• Introduction - this part of the holiday begins only after the birthday girl finishes fussing and takes her place, traditionally she should sit down after all the guests are ready for the start of the feast.
• First toast - usually opensthe feast is the one who organized it, the speech should not be drawn out, there is no need to mention the reason for the holiday, you can immediately go to congratulations.
• The second toast is a congratulation from the children and grandchildren, the spouse, that is, from those relatives who did not organize the holiday, but took part in its preparation.
• The third toast is a congratulation from distant relatives, friends of the birthday girl.
• Performance by artists (first performance) and immediately after it, or instead of a performance, a competition - 15-20 minutes, subsequent shorter ones - 10-15.
• Break time - music, dancing, smoke breaks, communication with guests, as soon as everyone is back at the table - the program is repeated, and so on until the end of the evening.

Important: the break between the first three toasts is 10 minutes, then this interval gradually increases and reaches 20-25.

Time gaps are very important for a holiday in a restaurant or cafe. When renting a hall by the hour, the most common problem of celebrations is lack of time or its excess. When calculating the required number of rental hours, you need to take a time of 20-30 minutes for the break interval.