2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21
Even 15-20 years ago, the tradition of writing letters to your girlfriend, and indeed to relatives or friends, seemed to have lost itself. It was much easier for people to make a phone call and say everything in words than to write on paper for a long time, go to the post office, send a letter, and then wait for it to reach its destination. They continued to write regularly, except for young guys who were serving in the army - to their mothers, sisters or beauties, who pledged to wait for their return. And they, in turn, wrote back. A letter to a loved one in the army from a girl is, of course, sacred. After all, it could raise the military spirit of a soldier. I remember that in the Soviet Union completely unfamiliar girls wrote to the army men to cheer them up, to give them a good mood. After the Internet rapidly entered our lives, the culture of written communication was revived again. This advantage is especially used by those who find it difficult to express their feelings live. In addition, the letter can be longthink about every word, expression, or when writing, use some kind of template, sample compiled by a professional, enter the lines of some famous or unknown author. In a word, a letter to your beloved girl with a declaration of love, especially for the first time, is much easier to write than to say everything at a meeting, looking into her eyes and not knowing what her reaction will be.
Letter to a stranger
There are situations when a guy accidentally meets a girl and falls in love with her at first sight. For some time he watches her, guards at her house, becomes her shadow, but does not find a suitable opportunity to approach and get acquainted. Then he decides to write to her. Such a love message has its own specifics. At the very beginning of the letter, the young man should introduce himself, tell about himself: what he does, what his interests are, etc. Then he should write about when and where he saw her for the first time, describe how she looked, what she was wearing and etc. Then you need to confess what a strong impression she made on him, and then add: "Maybe it was love at first sight?" After that, you can write that he would be happy to meet her and finally get to know her. And at the very end of the letter, the guy will have to leave his contacts, phone number, address of his profiles on social networks, etc. It will be very romantic if he immediately sets up a date with her, for example, in such expressions: "I will wait for you every day or every Thursday (Tuesday, Wednesday, etc. - it doesn't matter) atsuch and such a time, in such and such a place, until you come. "It is better to send a letter by mail, and for this the guy will have to establish her exact address, the girl's first and last name.
Letter from a shy guy to his beloved
Very often there are situations when young people - a girl and a guy - meet almost every day (they can work in the same business center, or one of them is an employee of a company whose client is the other, etc..d.), but without being introduced to each other, they do not even greet each other. Every day the guy falls in love with the girl more and more, perhaps she notices his interest in her person, but does not show it, and he, due to his natural shyness, does not dare to approach and get acquainted. Finally, the young "Romeo" gathers courage and writes a letter to his girlfriend about the feelings he has for her.
Of course, the further fate of the relationship between a guy and a girl depends on how this message is written. The main thing here is to be sincere, polite, careful in the choice of words. If you want to make some comparisons, then it should not sound funny, but appropriate. Sometimes girls like it when a declaration of love is written in poetic form. Of course, the lines of the pen of some classic are suitable for this, and not those vulgar rhymes that can be found on dubious sites.
Competent approach to writing a letter
It is desirable that the love message does not contain grammatical errors. If you are not an ace in spelling, then try in writingUse only those words whose spelling you are sure of. It is better to avoid slang expressions, but also not to write grandiloquent phrases on your own behalf. But if your chosen one is a refined nature, then couplets of Pushkin's poems are perfect for sending a message to her, which will need to be smoothly entered into the text of a letter to your beloved girl. It is better to talk about feelings in your own words either at the very beginning of a love message or at the end. It would be very helpful to describe what you felt the moment you saw her for the first time. But you need to be very careful in choosing expressions. They should be without pathos or any vulgarity. The girl must believe in the sincerity of your feelings and not at all doubt them. Only then can you count on success.
How to send an email?
Today there are many options for doing this. The simplest, of course, is to find out the email address and send a beautiful letter to your girlfriend in electronic form. You can also send her a personal message on the social network in which she is registered, but before that you need to ask her to be “friends”, because without this your message may go to spam. If she adds you to the list of "friends", she will immediately see who is the author of the letter. And this means that there will be no intrigue. But if you decide to write a real love message on a snow-white sheet of paper, and by hand, put it in a beautiful envelope and send it to her office along with a large bouquet of roses, then it will have a completely differenteffect - be sure the girl will definitely appreciate your efforts. You can also send a letter to your girlfriend through the mail. It will be intriguing.
A letter from a soldier to his girlfriend
Every young man who goes to serve in the army wants to know that his beloved is waiting for him. Being in a military unit, in his free time from service, he will dream about her, make plans for the future: how they will submit documents to the registry office, how they will choose a wedding dress, how they will play a wedding, celebrate their honeymoon, going on a honeymoon trip somewhere to hot sea, then they will have children, etc. Naturally, with all this, the young man will be eager to share with the object of his love. And the most convenient way for this is to write a letter to your girlfriend in your own words.
Contents
Of course, a love letter should not immediately begin with a list of events that the couple will have to go through after the guy returns home from the army. At the very beginning, he must tell the girl about his feelings, about how much he yearns for her, how he misses the tender look of her eyes, how he dreams of standing next to her, admiring her beauty, holding her hand and inhaling the aroma that comes from from her beautiful hair. One should also ask if she feels the same when thinking about him. After all, in this way he will dictate the tone of her response letter. Here is such a small trick that will force even the most restrained girl to also tell about her true feelings, about her love, about longing and expectation.
Emotionality
As a rule, after receiving a sincere touching letter from a soldier, even if it is written a little clumsily, the beloved sends him a message containing many affectionate words and assurances of reciprocity of feelings, and this can move the soldier to tears. A letter to your beloved girl in your own words, believe me, has a truly magical power. And if it is sincere, then not a single beauty can resist its charms. In the middle part of the message, you need to write about a bright future, about your dreams related to your beloved. After reading this, it will be easier for a girl to cope with longing, because she will also become involved in these dreams, and every night before going to bed she will develop upcoming events in her imagination. Naturally, in response, she will also share her dreams, which will provide inexhaustible material for future letters.
Declaration of love from the army
In the previous chapter, we looked at how to write a letter to your girlfriend about obvious and mutual love. However, it often happens that a guy, before going to the army, does not dare to open up to his chosen one. And so, once in the military unit, the young man, looking at how his comrades write letters to their girlfriends, gains courage and decides to open up to the subject of his dreams. How to compose such a message, what words to choose? That's when he realizes that writing "I love you" in a letter to your girlfriend is not so easy, although it is much easier than standing in front of her, looking into her eyes and making your confession.
Letter from the army(pattern)
So that no one bothers him to concentrate, the guy retires, takes out a blank sheet of paper, a pen and writes the first line: “Hi, (girl's name), writes to you (his name). You may know that I am currently in the military. I really hope you noticed my absence. You know, I've been in love with you for a very long time. It happened (there and under such circumstances). But you always seemed so unapproachable to me, and I could not confess my feelings to you. I cannot hope for anything or ask you for anything, but if you answer me, then I will be the happiest person in the world. I already imagine how I hold in my hands the reply letter you sent. I'll keep it in my breast pocket, next to my heart. Believe me, being here, far from everyone, I realized that you are the most dear person to me, that I was very wrong not to confess to you before leaving. Every time I close my eyes, you appear in my mind's eye, your appearance, so beautiful, mysterious. I fall asleep thinking of you. I love you very much! How I would like to have wings, even for a moment to return to our city and see you for a second, my love.
P. S. I can’t demand anything, but I really hope that you will still answer me, and my feelings will find a response in your heart. Looking forward to at least one line written by your hand."
About sad things
It happens that a girl promises a soldier to wait for his return, but does not keep her word. It is very bad when a guy is in the dark, waiting and hoping when he sees his beloved, andwhen he returns, he is deeply disappointed. I recalled a scene from the movie “Brigada”, when Sasha Belov returns from the army, and his girlfriend, having betrayed him, set off on the wrong path. From that moment on, the guy breaks his whole life. However, the situations are different, but if the girl is honest, then she should at least write a letter to her ex-boyfriend and tell her that she is no longer going to wait for him. Of course, this will hurt the guy very much, he will be very upset, but at least it will be honest. By the time he returns home, he will surely be cured of unrequited love.
Reply letter
Imagine a situation when a girl sent a message to a soldier that she fell in love with another and did not intend to wait for him anymore. Some guys do not want to put up with the situation and decide to make one last attempt to regain the location of their beloved and awaken past feelings. To this end, they write a touching farewell letter to their girlfriend. As a rule, in such messages there are many memories of those minutes during which both the guy and the lady of his heart experienced real, genuine happiness. Perhaps the girl forgot about them, and remembering, she will understand that she should not do this with a person who could give her happy moments. You can remember your common dreams and everything that was common between you - common plans for the future, common views on the same things, a common attitude to life. Maybe she doesn't have all that with her new boyfriend. Naturally, you don’t need to ask her not to leave you, come to her senses and return - this can representyou in her eyes as a weak-willed, spineless person. Try not to reproach her for infidelity at all, and do not mention a new lover in a letter. You can once again tell her what you feel for her, and that you are ready to forgive her momentary weakness. We need to put special emphasis on this. Perhaps she did not even think about how strong her feelings for a new guy are? And after you write about it, she will think in this direction and suddenly realize that she truly loves only you.
Ending
Finish the letter to your girlfriend in the situation that was described in the previous chapter, best of all with the wishes of all the best, and above all happiness, no matter what. It is necessary to strive to look in the eyes of the beloved as a generous person who is ready to understand and forgive. It is better to send such a letter not by mail, but through some acquaintance, in order to be sure that it reached its destination. If the girl does not hurry to answer this message, then try to tear her out of your heart and forget her. After all, as they say, you can't force yourself to be cute. You have already done so much by answering her letter. After all, many guys would immediately erase the name of an unfaithful girl from their memory and their hearts. You need to try to distract yourself with other activities, forbid yourself to think about her and everything connected with her name.
As a conclusion
So let's sum it up. A letter to a loved one, regardless of whether the girl knows about the feelings of the guy and whether they are mutual, should be written in a verypolite, respectful manner. It should not be familiar, contain slang expressions. Of course, if we are talking about a couple, then here the young man can use all those affectionate words that he usually calls his beloved. It can be very interesting when lines of beautiful poems are added to the text of the letter, and you can also put a random photo of a girl taken in the letter envelope, taken when she did not even suspect that someone was watching her. In a word, a very beautiful and touching letter to a girl can strengthen your relationship and make it brighter and warmer.
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