How to marry an Australian? Tips, pros and cons of marriage

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

Marry an Australian? Why not? Russian women are held in high esteem by foreigners. Feminine, economic, submissive, wise and loving children - the whole world loves Slav women.

To get "on the other side of the world", to Australia, which seems to many (and not unreasonably) a paradise on Earth, is not a pipe dream. The eastern side of the coast of the continent is especially good with thousands of kilometers of beaches, comfortable summer temperatures, and unprecedented nature.

Marry an Australian: the pros and cons of marriage

Let's start with the good. A woman who manages to marry an Australian will fully enjoy all the social privileges available to the indigenous population. That is, he will be provided with medical care, work, unemployment benefits (if he does not get a job), and will be able to get an education.

Your future Australian husbandis not stingy at all. But he will not squander money, and he will not allow you. Everything will be all right: there are no poor indigenous Australians in the country. You will always have money for current expenses and you will be able to buy great products. The husband does not mind bearing the costs of home repairs and is ready to spend money on buying a car (Australians change a car about once every four years). You can count on regular travel, adored by the local population, choosing either road trips through their native "Land of Oz" or trips to neighboring countries.

They say that among all the English-speaking peoples, Australians are more like Russians than others.

Myths and reality

It's a myth that all over Australia people mostly live on kangaroo or ostrich farms. In addition to a meager ten percent, all residents live in cities where gigantic skyscrapers are in good neighborhood with green islands of cozy parks and create a very harmonious impression.

Australian women don't like to be women in the truest sense of the word. They do not want to give birth, stand at the stove, maintain comfort and order in the house. They are masculine in a certain sense, they don't look after themselves very much, there are many feminists among them. Local men are not enthusiastic about such neighbors and do not really want to marry them. The government is happy to accept foreign girls who can get pregnant for permanent residence, since the demographic situation in the country is not that critical, but there is such a tendency that the population is aging, and new peopleare not born.

Another plus is that there is a fairly large diaspora of Russians in Australia, and it is not difficult to adapt here. Orthodox churches and Russian schools are at your service, but still do not forget to learn English, which is the state language.

Who do you get as life partners by marrying an Australian? Reviews of many women indicate that a kind and caring guy will walk with you through life. Calm, balanced and loyal. Cheating is not welcome on the Green Continent.

What are the disadvantages of marrying an Australian

In a well-fed country where everything is there, nothing needs to be mined and no one needs to fight, a man lives under the motto "relax and enjoy". In general, even if the husband does not have a roof over his head, he will not be upset and will spend the night in the park … After all, it is warm outside all year round. In general, Australians are quite lazy, and not only local women do not like to run the house. Once again, the guy will not rise to hammer a nail or fix a faucet.

If you decide to divorce, you will not be able to take the children from him. Most often, the court decides that the children spend one week with their mother, and the second with their father. Do you want to return to your homeland? You will have to leave the children in Australia: Australian fathers who are happy to agree to the removal of his children from the country simply do not exist. They do an excellent job of caring for and raising children and are able to provide them with an excellent, interesting, comfortable life.

From their English past, Australians have learned a love of alcohol. They prefer to drink beer and wine. Sometimes abused.

What is he, an Australian?

Australia is a former British colony. There is nothing surprising in the fact that by nature the local people are very reserved and calm, even sometimes too much. However, sometimes there are funny, noisy guys. Unemployment benefits are sometimes higher than wages, for example, an unemployed person can receive about $ 500 a week, and someone who works - about $ 450 after taxes. So which path would you choose? The country's authorities are trying to fight idleness, but neither students nor middle-aged people are in a hurry to find a job somewhere.

However, in Australia there is no single image of the average inhabitant of the "Land of Oz". Migrations of a mass nature led to the presence here of a huge number of various nationalities. Another plus is that people of different nations are treated loyally here.

The men here are very beautiful and he althy - the climate of the continent favors a flowering species. Usually Australians get married after 35 years, before - very rarely. They love children very much, up to four babies are often born in a family. Fathers take parental leave and sometimes do better than their wives. At night they get up, feed, on weekends they are not in the garage, at football or in the pub, but with their family.

Reviews and tips

Does everyone want to make a career, who managed to marry an Australian? Reviews aboutjob searches are quite promising - it is not difficult to find a job on the Green Continent, it is not difficult to get a job as a waitress or a salesman. Pay rate is approximately AUD 18 per hour. A daily wage of $180 is not a bad result.

Women still should not relax, they need to study the laws and understand what your rights are in a foreign country.

If you want to marry an Australian, weigh the pros and cons. There are many positive reviews about living with foreigners, as well as negative experiences. Domestic violence is present in all countries of the world, and Australia is no exception. Do not post your nude photos in the profile - people will definitely conclude that you are an easily accessible woman with whom you can afford any frivolity.

In any case, do not rush things, get to know each other properly.

A perfect man deserves a perfect woman

So you've made up your mind to marry an Australian. Where to begin? From yourself! Become a little bit like a dream woman:

• love football;
• love everything about your Aussie, his mom, where he lives, his affections;
• don't be a wolverine and a goat;
• always be ready to feed his many friends, may your house always be a full bowl;
• never swear, complain or make a fuss about anything;
• be always in great shape and at the parade;
• smile!

Step by step instructions

As usualvalid:

1. Getting acquainted.
2. Chat and communicate.
3. Meeting in progress.
4. Man proposes.
5. Woman gets visa.
6. Moving to Australia and adjusting.

As they say, the first impression is always the most memorable. Try to leave a positive opinion about yourself. Where to look for an Australian husband? There are plenty of international dating sites out there, and not many are worth your time.

Choose those that are free for applicants, that is, for you. In this case, the Australians pay for the services. Your task is to register, upload your most successful photos and correctly, and most importantly, honestly complete the questionnaire. This can be done in Russian. Your profile can be moderated within 1-2 days.

Don't scare the men

Australian bachelors are no different from other bachelors in the world - they are accustomed to a certain way of life, so you should not strain them with marriage and the birth of children. He wants to - will make an offer, he wants - he will not. You won't be forced to be nice. Let him think that your being together guarantees him a lot of bonuses like sex at any time, delicious food and other pleasures.

Developing relationships

Be in touch with those you like, and feel free to weed out those you don't.

Send your attractive photos with a good mood to desired candidates, try to be sincere and cheerful, and if you like a man, do not hesitate to tell him about it. Letthinks.

What documents do you need

So you've made a serious acquaintance with an Australian. Getting married in Australia is a matter already resolved by you, it remains only to comply with all bureaucratic formalities and draw up documents. You will need a fiancé visa. This document is specially issued to a girl in order to officially marry a citizen of the "Land of Oz". To obtain such a visa, you need to collect a package of documents that, translated and certified, must be sent by you to the consulate:

• passport;
• certificate of no criminal record;
• certificate of medical examination;
• proof of your relationship and at least one personal meeting - receipts with your names on them, joint photos or anything else that indicates your connection.

After that, expect a call or message, if the officials have any questions, you will be called for an interview.

Having received a fiancee visa, you can go to Australia, where you are given nine months to formally enter into a relationship. With this visa, you can enjoy all the benefits and rights of an Australian citizen: receive medical care, officially work and study.

Having a fiancé visa will not speed up the procedure for obtaining a residence permit at all. To become its owner, you must live with your husband for at least two years.

Life with husband in Australia

Our compatriots tell different stories. Don't marry an Australianso difficult. Candidate questionnaires in abundance allow you to choose the man of your dreams. On the Internet, there are both sad and scary stories about domestic violence. In principle, the laws in Australia protect the woman and the child. The police arrive quickly, in case of problems with the husband they will give temporary housing, single mothers are paid a decent allowance to live on.

But remember that you are in a foreign country. You are not at home, so you may not get 100% protection. Guarantees can only be given on home soil. Don't forget about it.

Any man should know and feel that you love not money and the country, but precisely himself, then he will be ready for anything for you. This means that you will be happy and will be able to say that you are really lucky with your husband.

Results

Remember to be strong. No matter how strong love is, the collapse of stereotypes and the culture shock of arriving in a foreign country can extinguish the most ardent fire of feelings with a whirlwind. Are you capable of strong emotions? Or do you pursue exclusively commercial and selfish goals and want to get married by convenience?

Do you want to marry an Australian for love? Check your feelings first. Remember that lying to yourself, in principle, is difficult, but in a foreign country it is a hundred times more difficult, you can’t live on a deceitful feeling for a long time. If you do not love, but pretend, then do not marry, do not cripple the fate of people.

The golden rule of life - invest in your happiness, grow it yourself, because time is much more valuable than any money, and you only need to spend itto what is dear to you!