2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21
Not everything that comes to us from Europe is beneficial. The European way of life, the desire to be like "them", have led to the fact that the institution of the family has lost its original meaning for many young people over the past 30 years. In the first place came a career, material security and unwillingness to take responsibility for other people.
It all starts with family
Today, various government programs are trying to revive family traditions, and, I must say, not without success. The holiday of love, family and fidelity is one of the programs that, despite its youth, has already fallen in love with millions of our fellow citizens.
The family as a social institution and instrument of influence began to lose its significance in the mid-80s of the last century. Although, while the “unbreakable union” existed, attempts to preserve the “cell of society”actively undertaken. Local committees, trade union committees, assemblies strongly opposed the dissolution of marriages, inventing all sorts of pen alties and holding explanatory conversations with "immoral" employees. With the entry into the era of freedom and democracy, there was no one to observe the moral character of citizens, and families began to break up more often.
In a troubled time of change, the issue of financial well-being came first. Those families that were created in the early 90s brought up the younger generation as best they could. As a result, we have a society in which family values and traditions are practically lost.
Chamomile
Every holiday should have its own special symbol. The holiday of love, family and fidelity is no exception. Chamomile is chosen as a symbol - the most beloved wild flower, symbolizing purity, fidelity and tenderness. In addition, almost all lovers guess on her petals: "loves - does not love." This symbol is also depicted on one side of the medal, which was issued especially for this holiday.
Origins
The holiday of love, family and fidelity, whose history is not familiar to everyone, sends us to the city of Murom back in 1203. It was there that the touching story about Grand Duke Peter of Murom and his wife Fevronia, known for her healing abilities and wisdom, began and ended.
The prince refused to rule for the sake of his beloved, but the people and the boyars persuaded him to return, accepting Fefoniya as his lawful wife and princess. The couple livedmany happy years, rules wisely and died in one day. And even after death, when according to the rules they were buried in different monasteries, Peter and Fevronia ended up in the same tomb. This phenomenon was called a miracle. Although in the history of Russia there are many examples when spouses shared grief, remaining faithful.
One of such examples is the family of Prince Dmitry Donskoy. His wife, Princess Evdokia, not only supported Dmitry and blessed him for military campaigns in defense of Russian lands. She became the guardian of the hearth, kept the Kremlin in strictness and order, bore the prince twelve children. After the death of Dmitry Donskoy, Evdokia remained faithful to him.
But perhaps the most striking example of family fidelity is the example of the Romanov family. Emperor Nicholas II and his wife Alexandra Feodorovna lived a happy life, loved each other and remained faithful until their last breath. Despite the terrible trials that the royal family underwent, they could not be separated even in order to save their lives.
Church
At the origins of many holidays is the church. In addition, she calls to keep the family. The holiday of love, family and fidelity is also related to the church. It is celebrated on July 8, on this day Peter and Fevronia died. They were greatly revered, and almost 300 years after their death they were elevated to the rank of saints. Until now, everyone who dreams of a strong and happy family comes to venerate the relics of the saints in the Holy Trinity Monastery in the city of Murom. There, between male and femalemonastery, on the Monastyrskaya Polyana, a monument to the couple Peter and Fevronia was erected.
State Scale
The Day of Family, Love and Fidelity was introduced in 2008 as part of the state family support program. The medal "For fidelity" was specially made: on one side - Saints Peter and Fevronia, on the other - a symbol of fidelity - a camomile. In addition, in many cities of Russia there are monuments not only to saints, but also monuments depicting a family.
Events are held in city parks and outside the city. On the squares you can not only become a witness, but also a participant in a street performance. The organizers of the celebration are not only the city administration. Many foundations try to support the Holiday of love, family and fidelity on this day. Congratulations also sound from the first persons of the state, from favorite actors and pop stars. Charity concerts held on this day bring joy not only to the audience, but also to little children left without parents.
Wedding ceremony
Couples planning to start a family try to do it on July 8, as it is believed that the union concluded on this day will be happy. That's why there are so many beautiful white dresses and sparkling eyes!
In addition, it is rare to meet so many couples who are worthy of respect and emulation, because the holiday - the Day of Family, Love and Fidelity - is a very good reason to reward marital unions that have managed to maintain love and fidelity to each other for 25 and over years. It was for them that the medal "For Love and Loy alty" was created, which, along with other gifts, is presented by the organizers of the holiday, representatives of various foundations and the city administration.
The only thing that cannot be done on this day is to get married. The holiday of love, family and fidelity falls at the end of Peter's Lent, so the wedding should be postponed until July 13.
School education
The school helps to nurture family values. Holiday Day of Love, Family and Fidelity falls on the summer holidays, but teachers do not bypass this topic. Educational hours, extracurricular and extracurricular activities gather large audiences. Parents are happy to watch the performance of their children, take part in games and competitions.
The state places a great responsibility on the school not only for the knowledge that children acquire, but also for the moral principles and human qualities that the school brings up. Helps in this holiday of love, family and fidelity. The scenario of the event is compiled by teachers together with the children. This approach to organizing the celebration not only develops creativity and helps to find talents, but also unites.
The smallest
Watching the little ones perform is fun and touching. Their childish sincerity and spontaneity touches. The holiday of love, family and fidelity in the preschool educational institution always gathers a large audience. Performances by little artists help unite families and build relationships in the children's team, becauseKindergarten is also a family. This is where the child spends most of his time.
Communication of children in the garden is an important point. Educators should pay special attention to the climate in the team. The ability to communicate and build relationships with each other, respect and help is laid at this age.
So, how to spend the holiday of love, family and fidelity? The scenario should be calculated no more than 30-45 minutes, because it is difficult for children from 3 to 6 years old to concentrate on one event, no matter how interesting it may be.
As decorations for the hall, in addition to traditional balloons, you can choose children's drawings about the family, photos from family albums.
Variant holiday scenario
Presenter: "Grandmothers and mothers, brothers, sisters and fathers, grandfathers, uncles and aunts! Good afternoon! How wonderful it is to spend the Day of Love, Family and Fidelity together! And our festive concert is started by the little ones!"
Children come out and sing a song about family
Q: "Dear adults, for each of you the word "family" has its own meaning, let's hear what your kids say about the family!"
On the screen, a video clip of children's statements about the family.
B: "Each holiday must have its own sign, symbol. Our family celebration also has it."
A girl dressed as a daisy comes out and recites poetry:
White chamomile - the sun in the middle, Petals-icicles turn white around the edges.
Ipick a camomile, sit down, tell fortunes, That he loves me, now I know for sure!
(hands out daisies to all guests)"
R: "Let each of you now have a little sun and warm your family!"
B: "Morning is always good, when the house smells of baking, when all the relatives gather at the big table! And to make the feast delicious, let's ask grandma for our favorite pancakes!"
Children come out and sing the song "Grandma, Bake Pancakes"
Q: "It's always a family to help. And since we're a big family too, let's see how the guys can help each other."
Competition for the best tying of a tie for boys and for the best hairstyle for girls.
B: "Now our guys will tell you how much they love their dads and moms."
Children come out and read poems about their parents.
Q: "And at the end of our holiday, let's remember the most touching moments in the history of each family."
A presentation created from family photos of all the participants of the holiday appears on the screen, accompanied by a song about the family.
The holiday of love, family and fidelity in kindergarten is a very responsible event, however, like other holidays. It is necessary to cultivate love for the family not only in children, but also in their parents. The more often such events are held, the sooner there will be peace and harmony in our families.
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