What happens after a man realizes he's in love

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

Even before a man realizes that he is in love, processes take place in his mind that are reflected in behavior, gestures and facial expressions. He becomes different, others notice it, friends begin to joke good-naturedly, and passers-by turn around after him. In most cases, a person whose heart, in old-fashioned poetic language, is "pierced by the arrow of Cupid", becomes kinder, he smiles more often, but sometimes an inexplicable sadness finds on him.

It is perfectly normal to want to take care of a woman who has become the object of this bright feeling, to isolate her from some unpleasant circumstances, or, in extreme cases, just to entertain, laugh, or even make her smile. After a man realizes that he is in love, his whole attitude changes. He does not know what to do, but he understands that it is necessary to act. At the same time, many representatives of the stronger sex do not want to discover their feelings before the moment when reciprocity is established, fearing a mocking “fromturning gate. Doubt makes us cowards…

But, as folk wisdom says, you can't hide an awl in a bag. The look of a man in love speaks more than the love arias of all brilliant operas, and surpasses in its expressiveness the play of any talented actor. It has everything: hope, and fear of unrequitedness, and adoration, and despair, and hope again. Only a blind and completely heartless woman will not understand that such and such (name) has a crush on her. But even in this case, there will always be someone who will clearly explain this circumstance to her.

From outside, it is often amusing to watch a man realize that he is in love. It is in the movies and in the novels that an instant flash of passion is described. It happens in life, but this is not about lust or the game of hormones, but about a serious and all-consuming feeling, and it requires reflection. The process takes place gradually, at first it seems that there is nothing special, just like a woman, that's all. Then comes understanding, usually defined by the word "missing."

The hussar gestures of a man in love, expressed in unprecedented generosity even among those who used to be known as miserly, are explained by the desire to become irreplaceable. The desire to enter the life of a beloved woman is combined with the hospitably open doors of one's own inner world. If there is something to show behind them, then fine, but one should also take into account the sad fact that not everyone is interested in this. Of course, you can give smart advice not to rush, but firstfind out the preferences of the lady, but who will listen to the recommendations of a sober mind, when the heart trembles in her presence, and yearns when she is not around!

Lovers need other advice, they want to determine how attractive they are to the object of their adoration. And without waiting for wise speeches from friends, relatives and acquaintances, they begin to carefully monitor their appearance, they try very hard to show off their wit and erudition, in general, to stand out. In some ways, this resembles the mating games of peacocks, but what to do means that a representative of a male tribe should behave according to the laws of nature.

So, how does a man understand that he is truly in love, and not just infatuated? He feels it in his heart. If at the thought of a woman a warm wave of tenderness arises in the soul, then yes.