Dad can do it! What role does a father play for a child?

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

June 19th is Father's Day all over the world. And even though this holiday has not yet become official in our country, it is definitely very close to every family. Let's talk about what he is - the best father in the world.

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Everyone knows perfectly well that a child needs a father no less than a mother. Children just need the friendship, love and approval of the pope. It's great if the guys have the opportunity to be with their father for a long time, to feel his affection, care, to help him in some way. But, unfortunately, more often than not, the biggest desire of parents after returning from work is to eat and stretch in front of the TV.

It is important for any father to understand that the child really appreciates communication with him, especially if dad is a very busy person. If the parent feels this, then he will have much more desire to spend time with the baby, overcoming his fatigue.

Puts above all the desire of the child

Dad is a dear person who appreciates personal choice and does not criticize. It happens that a father, even before the birth of a child, sees a future football player in his son. And from the earliest years, the head of the family enrolls the baby in the football section, constantly watches matches with him, and trains the child at home. But the result may be different. For example, a boy may simply not succeed in football. In such a situation, the son's pastime with his father becomes a burden to both. And this should not be allowed, so you need to be able to listen to the offspring.

Constant criticism from the father will lead to the fact that the child will not enjoy the game. Moreover, the father will make the child consider himself a loser. The approval of the pope is much more important than the censure. Over time, perhaps the boy will be drawn into sports, you just need to give him time. It's good when the son invites the head of the family to play football - this will serve as entertainment for both.

A role model and a true friend

The boy will feel like a man, watching the man in whom he feels confident and reliable. It can be older friends, grandfather, brothers. Or maybe the father. Constantly bumping into reproaches from the dad, the child will not perceive him as an example to follow. Often such children are drawn closer to their mother, perceiving her interests and behavior.

When a father seeks to make a real man out of his son, do not pounce on the child when he whimpers, make him work on things in which he does not see himself. Dad is the one who shouldn'tshame the kid if he plays girly games. Father and son should have their own secrets, spend time alone with each other, such as fishing. Then the child will develop the stereotype “dad is his boyfriend.”

Dad is the standard for daughter

A girl needs a dad just as much as a boy. There is a significant difference in the relationship between the baby and the father, in which many people do not always see the need. The boy is looking for a role model in the parent, and the girl is looking for a support and a person whose approval gives self-confidence. When a girl demands advice from her father, it is necessary to reverently approach this issue and help the baby with one or another choice, approving the option that the child himself initially likes. Thus, dad will praise the girl's inner instinct.

Then the daughter will get older, and the father will have to show her that he appreciates her opinion in any matters. It would not be superfluous to ask your daughter for advice, for example, about where to go with the whole family on the weekend. A little more time will pass, and your girl will begin to be friends with boys. This is inevitable, so it is important to be loyal to her friend, even if the father is sure that the daughter's boyfriend is not a couple. The daughter will look for the best qualities of a father in her chosen one.

Dad is hope and protection from any danger. It can protect the mother from excessive guardianship, protect from the dangerous outside world and the misfortunes associated with the inner feelings and fears of the child. Of course, now in our world, women dominate most areas that shape the personality. Mom can naturally teachchild to many things: honesty, prudence, accuracy, purposefulness. This list can be very long. But the weaker sex will never be able to do one thing - to be a man, to be a father. Dad can!