Dating a Girl: A Guide for Young People

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

It is believed that the stronger sex behaves with weak women relaxed and independent, that it is easy for guys to start a conversation with any girl and invite her on a date. However, life is much more complex and diverse than any stereotypes and statements. And therefore, far from always a young man can muster up the courage and show signs of attention to the young lady he liked.

Communication with a girl is not a ritual, not a rite, which is joined at a certain age. We learn to find a common language with people all our lives, and relationships between the sexes are no exception. Therefore, it is worth discussing first what options for dating and communication are doomed to failure in advance, and which ones will be very effective.

Don't!!

Once upon a time, the poet said that the service of the muses does not tolerate fuss. It also does not tolerate the fuss of falling in love or simply being interested in a person. And therefore, the rules of communication with girls include advice: do not try to get acquainted in a hurry, on the run, in a hurry. After all, if a girl is in a hurry, she just has no time to look at you,listen to your speeches and appreciate them. Her pretty head may be occupied at this moment with any thoughts, but there is clearly no place for you there. And instead of the expected interest in your person, you risk running into either coldness and detachment, or even rudeness.

Because if communication with the girl of your dreams really interests you, be patient and wait for the moment when she walks down the street, slowly, or even better - bored. Here it is, as they say, yours, just be able to interest!

Another "don't" concerns obsession. Seeing that the girl is walking alone, pay attention to her gait, to the expression on her face. It is possible that the lady is not in a good mood. And instead of the expected cute flirting, communicating with a girl in this state will cause the opposite effect. Approaching, ask if she needs help. Try to express sympathy in a sympathetic tone, but do not overact. By her reaction, you will understand whether you hit the bull's-eye or you should politely say goodbye and disappear into the crowd for a while - until the next meeting.

Remember the proverb: “legs are stretched along clothes”? Alas, it also applies to romantic dreams and their realization. It is quite possible that a girl, if she is pretty, intelligent and not complex, and even from a we althy family, already has a whole crowd of fans. She is presented with chic bouquets, rides in cool "cars", pampered with expensive cosmetics and tickets for closed movie screenings. And let her not turn up her nose yet and behave naturally - think, in a statedo you compete with her constant surroundings? After all, serious communication with a girl suggests that you will be introduced into the circle of her constant acquaintances. Will you feel on the right plate when you have to take the subway to a party, and when you collect money to go to a restaurant in a clubbing, you simply don’t have the right amount? How is Zoshchenko doing in The Aristocrat? "Those without money - those with the ladies do not go …". It's sad, of course - but it's probably better not to take risks, not to hurt your pride.

And one more important point. Before you go on an acquaintance and strike up a conversation, figure out what to talk about with a girl. Improvisation is good when it is carefully prepared. Remember what books you have read in recent months, what films you have watched, what your hobbies you can tell her about.

Show your courtesy and good manners. A respectful “you” in this situation will become a solid bridge to a close-minded kind “you”. And in no case do not use obscene expressions and “verbal garbage” - all kinds of “kitties”, “crumbs”, “babies”, etc. Girls, even in the 18th century, even in the 21st, are still very, Well, I really want romance and really beautiful relationships.

Before you go out into the world, put yourself in order. Greasy hair and a cigarette stuck to your lips, wrinkled clothes and uncleaned shoes will repel any girl from you, even if you are seven spans in your forehead and can broadcast absolutely everything in the world 24 hours a day.

How about it?

You need to be yourself. Show the best in youeat, and fight the bad. And then luck on the love front will be with you!