How to wish your ex a happy birthday?

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

Probably, every girl at least once wondered how to congratulate the ex on his birthday, and whether it is worth doing it at all. If you woke up in the morning with the thought "I want to wish your ex a happy birthday", you need to make it beautiful and memorable for a long time.

Destruction of psychological stereotypes

In most cases, not so much the former lovers themselves as the environment dictates certain rules. It begins to seem that this is not a loved one at all (albeit a former one), but some kind of personal enemy. It is worth congratulating the ex on his birthday or not - the decision is yours. But in any case, this is not direct evidence that you are not able to do without it or cannot forget it. Rather, it is a sign of spiritual maturity, the ability to forgive and inner nobility.

Determining the motive

Before you wish your ex a happy birthday, you need to figure out the reason why such a desire arose. Based on this, you can already choose the appropriate option.

If you just want to congratulate your exhalf out of respect, a congratulation on a social network with a postcard will do. Did you manage to stay friends? Then it is not at all necessary to emphasize the status of "ex" - you can send a message or call. This is provided that he does not have a lover, and with your call you will not spoil not only the holiday, but also other people's relationships.

Several reasons for congratulations

Even if you and your spouse did not part very well, some factors oblige you to congratulate your ex-husband on his birthday:

1. Common child. It will be better for him if the relationship between dad and mom is warm and trusting. But at the same time, it is important to maintain a balance when a husband has a new wife - you should not call without a reason. But once a year, happy birthday is permissible.
2. Common work and teamwork. It is foolish to ignore this day if you work together. It is not necessary to write poetry, you can congratulate the former on his birthday in prose. The main thing is to do it sincerely.
3. You always cross paths and have common friends. In this case, by ignoring this day, you can put yourself in a not very beautiful light in front of your surroundings. You can also wish your ex a happy birthday over the phone without resorting to a meeting. If you want to attend the event, you can come with one of your friends. Of course, this is appropriate if it does not cause aggression and negativity in your direction from the hero of the occasion.

When is it better to refrain from congratulations?

There are a number of cases where the impulseit is better to refuse to congratulate the ex on his birthday so as not to aggravate the situation:

• your ex-spouse is not at all interested in you or the life of your common child;
• ex-partner offended you, humiliated your honor and dignity;
• false rumors spread about you during the breakup;
• other reasons, including your reluctance to remember the past.

Congratulations in prose

If there is absolutely no desire to congratulate past love in verse, or you consider this option not very appropriate, you can beautifully congratulate your ex on your birthday with just words. The main thing here is that the words are written and spoken from the heart. For example, like this:

• Happy birthday to you! Let you and I no longer be together, but I really want you to be happy. Love and be loved. May every day be an occasion for joy and smiles, and your wishes come true.
• Let us no longer go the same way with you, but I congratulate you on your day! Today you begin a new stage of life, this is your personal New Year. Take into it all the good that was before, and leave the bad in the past. I wish you all the best.
• Happy birthday to you! Stay the same brave, strong and attractive man that I once fell in love with. And even though we parted, for me you are still a close person. Thank you for the time you gave me.
• If you and your ex-husband have a child, then you can congratulate in this way:Happy Birthday! We may not be together now, but for our son (daughter) you are the best dad in the world! We wish that all your desires become a reality. I wish you good he alth and success in business. Thank you for our warm memories, and for the fact that we have the most beloved and dear person - our child. Hugs.
• If an important event happened on the eve of the ex's birthday, for example, moving to another country, getting married, starting a new business, then you can choose other words. For example: Happy birthday to you! So what you dreamed about happened! Hold your dream firmly in your hands and don't give it away to anyone. May new opportunities appear in your life, great love that will last a lifetime. Good luck, success in work and peace with yourself and others. May there be more joy and smiles in your life!

Congratulations in verse

In those cases when you absolutely don’t know what to say, and congratulations in prose seem stupid, ready-made creations in verse will come to the rescue:

I won't shout pathetic words, And magical wishes too, I want to wish you he alth and happiness, There is nothing more precious in the world!

Here's another good one:

Even though you and I broke up a long time ago

And the flame of feelings died out long ago, Our dates remain in memory, Native, dear to us.

Happy birthday to you

From the bottom of my heart, I want

Love you the same, eternal, Fulfill youyour dream.

You can choose another verse:

Happy birthday, once beloved, I remember your birthday, I hope today is happy

No doubt pleased with myself.

You and I have remained friends, And I hope I can congratulate, Message just by sending, Send a kiss instead of a dot.

I'm jealous of you, you know, But in my heart I wish you well, Let the angel of heaven help

And will always be with you.

Birthday as a way of reconciliation

If you broke up with your loved one recently, then a birthday is a good occasion to improve relations. The main thing is to do it unobtrusively.

What did your lover dream about when you were together? Maybe it's a go-kart gift certificate, a T-shirt with the logo of your favorite band or hockey team, a gym membership or a set of tools? Think about it. Look at the gift you like, call and congratulate your loved one. If you can arrange a meeting on the birthday itself or in the coming days after it, get a gift. Maybe your ex will stop being the past and become an awesome present.