Why do men get mistresses, and how to defeat a rival?

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

"Treason is very painful and insulting" - these are the words that any woman who has experienced such a betrayal and a blow to pride from a beloved man will tell you. It is not so important how it was possible to find out that the missus has a very personal relationship on the side. The main questions are: "What to do with this knowledge now? and" Why do men take lovers?

Main causes of male infidelity

Let's agree right away that we will mainly analyze situations in which one representative of the stronger sex prefers to have relationships with several women at once. Many ladies prefer, having learned about treason, to immediately accuse the unfaithful of all mortal sins, and elevate the injured party to the rank of saints. And this is a completely wrong assessment of the situation. After all, one of the main reasons why men have mistresses is problems in relationships with a constant companion. It is not enough to conquer a man once. Relationships need daily comprehensive work, it is necessary to maintain the partner’s attention to one’s own person, to remain for himinteresting and desirable in any life situation. Remember that even a casual acquaintance with a girl can make a big impression on your missus if the opponent understands him better, interests him or gives something that the previous companion could not give. We must not forget about feelings: if a man has lost interest in his woman, he will change sooner or later for sure. In addition, he can always fall in love again or experience intense passion.

Why do men take lovers when the family is doing well?

The paradox of the situation is that they cheat not only on untidy boring wives in dressing gowns and curlers. Often the situation looks quite different: the wife is pretty, a common cozy house, material we alth, interestingly organized joint leisure. And my husband is cheating. The reason for this behavior is a thirst for new sensations, perhaps everything is too perfect in the family, and this makes it boring. The desire to go "to the left" can be imposed on a man and his unmarried friends. And it's not just about the weak-willed representatives of the stronger sex. It is quite possible that even a fully self-confident man, having heard enough stories about the exploits of his comrades, will wish to remember his youth and make sure of his own abilities.

What to do when you find out about cheating?

Most importantly, try to keep your cool and understand why men have lovers. The best resolution of the love polygon will be when its top finds strength in itself and, having explained itself, remains withone of his women. In practice, this rarely happens. More often one of the women leaves, but not immediately. You should not look for the girl of your beloved and try to sort things out with her. If you want to save your union, you should look for mistakes in your behavior and try to correct them. At the same time, do not forget to make it clear to the man that you will not tolerate his such behavior in the future. Perhaps you should live separately for a while. According to statistics, relationships that a woman enters into as a mistress rarely turn out to be durable and truly lasting. In addition, the one whose man was "taken away" knows him well enough and, if desired, can try to remember how to win his heart. Of course, in the event that, having calmed down and rested from her partner, she will still want to return everything back.