2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21
Although now is the 21st century - the time of technological progress and the dominance of science - our people are still superstitious. And there is nothing wrong with that. After all, who can argue with the experience of our ancestors? This article will be useful to those who are planning a wedding in October. Signs and beliefs that are best to pay attention to are what will be discussed next.
Wedding October
Most people know that there are more and less favorable months for marriage. What can you say to those people who are planning a wedding in October? Signs say that the family life of such couples will be quite complicated and full of disputes and contradictions. But do not get upset or panic! Astrologers say that in each month there are both favorable and not very good periods for marriage. And each year must be considered separately.
In 2014
What do newlyweds planning to get married in October need to know? Signs and astrologicalcalculations show that this month in 2014 there are favorable periods for this celebration.
- According to the Christian calendar, these are October 17, 19, 24, 26 and 31.
- Eastern horoscope advises to get married in periods from 1 to 10 and from 19 to 30 October.
- According to the lunar cycle, there are two favorable dates in this month: when the Moon is in Taurus - October 10, or in Cancer - October 14.
Speaking in general, you need to remember that 2014 is the year of the Blue Horse. And she gives all the newlyweds and other people peace and tranquility in family life. So this year is completely favorable for those who plan to unite their destinies forever.
On the benefits of an October wedding
It is worth saying that autumn used to be a time of weddings. The thing is that the time of harvesting the fields is over, and you can relax a little. In addition, fasting has not yet begun, and you can feast without restrictions. Well, no less important point: autumn is the time of full cellars and harvested crops. Therefore, setting a table for regaling guests will not be any problem. What else is good about an October wedding?
- If the wedding is planned in October, the weather for the newlyweds is likely to please. Especially in the first half of the month. The sun still shines quite brightly and even warms a little, rains at this time are an infrequent occurrence.
- October is the time of the most amazing photo shoots for a young couple. A riot of colors and the widest possible range of colors, beautiful landscapes and the ability to shoot unforgettable shots - allit will definitely please people in love.
- What else is important: the queues at the marriage registration authorities - registry offices, at this time are minimal. So you can choose the time of painting at your discretion, and not adjust your plans to the queue (as is often the case in summer).
- The guests had a good rest until autumn, gained strength. And since there are no big and expensive holidays nearby, they will be able to fork out for expensive gifts for young people.
What other autumn wedding signs are there?
So, it is worth saying that there are several different opinions among the people regarding October marriages:
- If the couple is planning a wedding on Pokrov, signs say that the couple will be happy all their lives.
- Autumn marriage promises a strong union for young people.
- Wedding in October will bring rich life to the family. Which, however, will be full of quarrels and conflicts.
- If the young people have a wedding at the end of October and it snowed during it, this is a very good sign. So the family will be happy.
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People say that a good month for marriage is the one with the letter "r" in its name - October.
Pre-wedding advice from astrologers
Be sure to consider signs before the wedding. After all, a lot depends on how people prepare for one of the most important days in their lives, including the happiness of the young. There are several prohibitions that should be remembered by those who plan their holiday:
- You can't play a wedding if a year has not passed since deathfather or mother of one of the young.
- Before the matchmaking, the groom should not tell anyone the name of his beloved. In this case, there will be no marriage.
- The perfect day to send matchmakers is Friday. The outcome of the case in this case will be favorable.
- The day before the wedding, you need to bake a solemn loaf.
- The week before the wedding, the bride and groom must go to church. Defend the service, as well as confess and take communion.
- If a couple lives together before marriage, they must still spend the last night apart. On the day of the wedding, the groom must pick up the bride from her parents' house (when leaving the bride's house or apartment, the groom should not turn around in any case - the beloved can return home).
- Before the wedding, young people should not be photographed together, and after the wedding - separately. This is for parting.
- What are some other signs before the wedding? If the bride cries before the wedding, it is fortunate.
- Prosperous marriage promises sneezing on the day before the wedding. A close relative of the newlyweds should sneeze in the morning.
- In order for the young to have a sweet life, a couple must secretly eat a chocolate bar in front of the wedding palace.
- The night before the wedding, the bride should put a mirror under her pillow.
These are the main rules that young people must adhere to before the wedding day.
Loaf and omens
Considering the signs before the wedding, it is worth dwelling in more detail on the preparation of the solemn loaf. What alreadyIt was said above that it should be baked the day before the celebration. However, these are far from all the nuances that young people need to know about:
- Only familiar women should be allowed to bake a loaf. At the same time, they should be happy in marriage and kind in soul. Widows or divorced ladies cannot be trusted to cook it.
- For baking a loaf, only wheat and rye are taken.
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At the same time, only the bottom of the loaf is made from rye. Everything else, including decorations, is baked from wheat flour.
Signs about choosing a wedding day
If the couple is planning a wedding in October, the signs of the day of the celebration itself must be studied.
- It is better not to set the wedding day on the 13th.
- The union will be long and successful if the young people sign in the afternoon.
- If the bride and groom were born on Saturday, they should not marry on that day. There may be problems with the birth of children.
- Weddings cannot be played on fasting days.
- It's good to get married on religious holidays. So the Almighty will always help this family.
Wedding omens
Newlyweds should understand which signs for the wedding are iconic, and which ones you can not always pay attention to. Wedding omens are important and even special.
- Whose wedding candle burns longer, the one of the couple will live longer.
- If during the ceremony a scarf falls from the bride's head, then she is destined to remain a widow.
- If wedding candlewent out ahead of time, there will be difficulties in the family. Or maybe even death.
- For a young couple to live happily ever after, wedding candles must be blown out at the same time.
Wedding rings
To make a happy young family who had, for example, a wedding in the fall, signs regarding wedding rings also need to be taken into account. What should newlyweds know and remember?
- You can't let anyone else try your wedding rings. Someone can "steal" the happiness of the young.
- In order for the life of the new family to be smooth, wedding rings must also be chosen smooth, without any stones, notches, patterns.
- When young people put rings on each other, an unmarried girl should take the box from under them or the saucer.
- If the ring fell before it was first put on the finger of the spouse, this promises separation for the young. However, to prevent this from happening, a white thread must be threaded through the ring (witnesses must prepare it in advance). After the marriage ceremony, the one who dropped the ring must burn the thread, while saying: “Fire, take away all my hardships and sorrows.”
- On the day of the wedding, the bride should not wear any other rings on her hand.
- If the ring was lost before the wedding, the celebration is unlikely to take place. If after - the spouses are likely to be separated.
Bridesmaid dress
What other wedding signs are there? The bride needs to be aware that there are omens that relate to her weddingdresses. Therefore, the bride should take good care of her outfit. What should be remembered in this case?
- White wedding dress should only be worn by virgins. Otherwise, choose cream, beige, pink or any other outfit.
- Until the wedding day, the groom must not see the bride in her wedding dress.
- Before the wedding, the bride should not look at herself in the mirror in full wedding attire. This promises minor troubles in the family. However, without a veil, shoes or gloves (that is, one of the elements of a wedding dress), you can look at yourself in the mirror without fear.
- A wedding dress, like wedding rings, should not be allowed to be measured by anyone.
- If it has buttons, there must be an odd number of them.
- The bride cannot wear jewelry at the wedding, they are replaced with costume jewelry. Also, do not use pearls - this is to the tears of the young.
- The style of the wedding dress should be without a deep neckline and open shoulders (otherwise the bride can easily be jinxed by envious people).
- Bridal shoes should be closed: without open toes and heels. In this way, poverty and divorce can be avoided.
- In order for the bride to protect herself from the evil eye, a few stitches must be made on her outfit. A couple of stitches on the dress after the wedding will give the spouses a long and happy family life.
- In order for young people to protect themselves from the evil eye, they need to attach safety pins upside down to their formal attire.
- During the wedding, no one should correct the outfit of the bride and groom, except for parents or witnesses.
- Aftercelebrations, you cannot sell a wedding dress, veil and boutonniere.
- If the bride gets married while pregnant, she needs to screen the baby. To do this, it is good to tie a wide red belt on the stomach. If the outfit does not provide for this, the belt (or ribbon) is tied under the wedding dress.
What should a bride bring to a wedding?
What else is important to know the signs for the wedding of the bride? So, on the wedding day itself, a young lady should take the following things with her:
- Something new to symbolize her new status as a wife. For example, dress, veil or shoes.
- Something old, which is a symbol of wisdom and peace in the new family. It can be an old family necklace, brooch.
- Something borrowed from a happy married couple.
- Something blue as a symbol of purity, modesty, fidelity and love. It can be a garter, jewelry, a handkerchief.
Groom's outfit
What can folk signs say about the groom? For a wedding, a young person needs to choose a suit, also guided by the experience of our great-grandmothers. What should a man remember?
- To make the marriage happy, you need to attach two red ribbons crosswise to the suit (can be from the inside).
- The color of the groom's suit is also important. He can talk about the following:
- Black outfit - there will be love and peace in the family.
- A gray suit promises a long life together for a couple.
- Wearing a white outfit, the groom invites trouble.
- If the guy is bluesuit, so he will not be faithful in marriage.
- Brown suit puts on by a strict husband.
- The guy's green outfit is a marriage for people to laugh at.
- A blue suit promises young quarrels over money.
Table signs
What other signs are there on the wedding day? So, the nuances that you need to know when organizing a feast are also important.
- The wedding table should be "rich". It’s good if each of the guests brings something from themselves and puts it on him as a treat.
- At the table, newlyweds should eat and drink very little. And they generally have to pour the first three glasses behind their backs. This is necessary so that “we alth flows like water” in the house.
- For young people to be one, they should not sit on different chairs, but on the same bench.
- Young people should use their own cutlery. You can’t eat from one spoon, this promises minor quarrels and troubles.
- The main sign of the feast: at the wedding, guests should sit a little and dance a lot and have fun. It will bring a happy family life to the young.
Signs "after"
Be sure to say that there are also signs after the wedding. What do newlyweds need to know and remember?
- After the wedding, young people should look in one mirror. Then their lives will be happy.
- After the wedding, the girl should distribute change to prevent trouble in family life.
- After the first drink of champagne, young people should break the glasses. By the way, they looked at the fragments, who was the first to be born to the couple. If the piecesbig - there will be a boy, small - a girl.
- The groom must bring the bride into the house in his arms. However, this sign does not work if the couple has lived together in the same territory before.
- After the blessing of the parents, the young should stand on one rug. So they will live in harmony not only with each other, but also with other relatives.
Lucky omens
It is definitely worth talking about what are good signs for a wedding. That is, what signs will bring young people exclusively happiness, love and we alth.
- If it snows or rains on the wedding day, the couple's family life will be prosperous.
- For a long and happy married life, the groom must carry the bride across the bridge.
- In order for the couple's life together to be prosperous, the young are showered with grain, sweets, change.
- On the wedding day between the bride and groom, no one should get up. Otherwise, the couple will break up.
- Unmarried boys and girls should be taken as witnesses. Divorced people should not be invited. If the witnesses come together after the wedding, the life of both couples will be long and happy.
- In order for the young to be happy, when preparing the family bed, pillows should be placed cut to each other.
- In order for the spouses to live in abundance, they must sit at the table on a fur coat laid up with fur.
- In order for the couple's family life to be rich, the groom must put a coin in his right shoe on the wedding day. It is then kept at home and is considered a family heirloom and a talisman.
- During the wedding celebration, the bride and groom must danceonly with each other. Sometimes with parents.
Other signs and traditions
What is very important for young people to know when a wedding is being prepared? Signs and traditions can help to avoid trouble.
- Wedding guests should not wear black clothes.
- A girl should not knit things for her beloved before the wedding. It is believed that this will lead to separation.
- After the departure of the bride to the registry office, you can not wash the threshold of the house. Otherwise, the girl will soon return to her father's nest.
- The newlyweds should not have any wine left in their wedding glasses. This promises tears and sorrows in family life.
- If the bride's left palm itches on the wedding day, this is a sign of we alth. If it is right, the couple will always have fun and guests at home.
- It is bad luck to break something on the day before the wedding. Breaking a mirror is especially dangerous.
- You cannot give forks and knives to a wedding, otherwise the couple will live in quarrels. However, if such a gift was made, then the giver must be given a ransom - a coin.
- You must invite an odd number of guests to the wedding.
- The bride should not let go of the wedding bouquet all day. You can temporarily give it to hold your mother or witness. At the banquet, the bouquet stands in front of the young. After the wedding, he is brought into the bedroom where the newly-married couple will sleep. As soon as the bouquet begins to fade, it must be thrown away.
Who is the head of the family?
There are several signs that will tell you who will be the head of the family.
- When youngbite the loaf, you need to see who bit off the biggest piece. The "winner" will be the head of the family.
- Whoever is the first to be on the towel in the registry office, he will dominate the family.
- A couple in the registry office holding hands. You have to see whose hand is on top. After all, he will be the head of the family.
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