A friend is one soul living in two bodies

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

In moments of sincere sadness and joy, when feelings overflow, a woman is ready to pour out her soul only to her best friend. Sometimes we cannot tell our sisters, parents and beloved everything that gnaws at the heart. After all, only a true friend is an ally, assistant, adviser and psychologist all rolled into one. A friend is our " alter ego", a continuation of thoughts, feelings, ideas about the world. It is an extension of our soul.

And yet she is

Female friendship is the cause of much controversy. However, all attempts to debunk the existence of female friendship ended in failure. From time immemorial, every woman had a friend, interlocutor and adviser who selflessly helped, gave positive emotions and shared experiences. Psychologists have found that a woman cannot do without communicating with a friend. This is due to the fact that men and women have different ways of perceiving and transmitting information. So, information content is important for men, and emotions and sensuality are necessary for women. Only between women an unusually strong emotional union is created, beneficial for both.

We speak in half hints, gestures, smiles and shining eyes, we hug and kiss when we meet. In this lurksthe success of each of us, and our mental he alth depends on it. We understand each other perfectly … We are female friends! Men are not given to subtly feel the spiritual, invisible energy. That is why female friendship has existed for many years. To say that it does not exist is illogical and incorrect.

True friendship or illusion?

Every woman has many friends, but the real one is only one! We have been friends with her for many years, sometimes communication is interrupted, but when we meet, we behave as if we parted only yesterday.

Is this a real friend, or is it an illusion of sincere friendship? The question is easy to answer with a little reflection on your relationship.

So the best friend is the one…

1. With whom it is easy to communicate, there are always topics for conversation, you do not have to think about questions and answers. Communication happens by itself, naturally, simply.
2. Who is a kindred spirit.
3. Who is ready to listen, sympathize, help with advice and action at any moment.
4. Who is fun to spend time with.
5. Who will never betray or offend.

You can endlessly name the qualities of a true friend, but true friendship is easy to distinguish. After all, if people do not understand each other, and communication is only a burden, and not a joy, you can no longer doubt that we are not talking about true friendship here.

Features of relationships

The Women's Union is like a Temple, beautiful, multifaceted, full of faith, but invariably fragile. Every friendship is special, noidentical relationships, in any pair there are charters, laws, unspoken rules. Some friends meet almost every day, and some go shopping or to an event once a week. From this, communication should not become worse; other aspects can damage friendship. For example, it is important to keep a good tone, never raise your voice or shout.

You definitely need to learn to listen and hear without interrupting your interlocutor. A friend is a woman who does not impose her problems and does not put them above all else. You can’t be selfish in female friendship, you need to be able not only to receive, but also to give. And most importantly, what is unacceptable is betrayal, including an attempt to please the man of your girlfriend. It is because of betrayal that even the most faithful girlfriends break up.

They came together like ice and fire…

There are times when a friendship develops between two very different women. Well, it is quite possible and acceptable. For example, friends with the same interests go to dances or cooking classes together. One is an exquisite lady with marvelous manners, and the other is a simple girl "from the village of Kukuyevo." Is true friendship possible between them? On the one hand, no doubt. Perhaps they just found each other, two halves of the same soul. On the other hand, such an alliance will not last long, because the views on life differ significantly. However, you can become really good friends by following simple tips.

1. No need to try to remake and adjust your girlfriend for yourself. Accept her for who she is.
2. Don't criticize orscoff, there are many positive qualities in every person.
3. You always need to be there in difficult times, be ready to listen, understand and give advice.

Summing up

• Contrary to many opinions, female friendship exists, this union is much stronger than male relationships.
• A friend is when communication is interesting, easy, relaxed, she is like your second "I".
• It is important to learn how to build relationships and cherish them.
• Don't forget to surprise each other and meet as often as possible. This has a beneficial effect on the psycho-emotional state and he alth.
• Treachery is unacceptable, a rare girlfriend can forgive him.
• Any women can become friends, regardless of status, external data.

If you have one and only, but the best friend is happiness! Take care of her!