2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21
Unfortunately, there are more and more single women every year. Why is this happening? People like to say that there are three categories of men:
- married;
- homosexuals;
- drug addicts, alcoholics and other rabble.
In addition, the number of women in the country significantly exceeds the number of men. Of course, "there are few princes, and there are not enough of them for everyone." This is probably what caused the emergence of another category of representatives of the strong half of humanity - gigolos. And their number is growing rapidly. After all, women who do not have a personal life tend to succeed at least in their careers. And they often succeed. Only now happiness from this, for some reason, does not increase.
So who are gigolos? Roughly speaking, these are men who live at the expense of women. Although, of course, to call such "individuals" men does not turn the tongue. But nevertheless, there is a demand for such gigolos. And if there is a demand, then the offer will not be long in coming. And all right, if a we althy woman consciously seeks an illusion of happiness for herself and is ready to pay a man for being with her. But wheremore often it happens that the representatives of the stronger sex who want easy money find rich (and not so) ladies themselves. After all, who are Alphonse? These are men who are very well versed in female psychology, unprincipled, cynical, able to lie convincingly and not blush at the same time. Some of them are actually ardent misogynists, so they consider it their sacred duty to swindle as many unsuspecting ladies as possible. They are very skillfully rubbed into trust and find the right approach to almost any woman. At first, they can even look after beautifully. And this happens exactly until it comes
certainty that a woman has finally fallen in love. Now you can “twist ropes” out of it. Immediately, these men start having some problems at work (they were fired, they don’t pay wages, etc.), or there is a desire to open their own company, but, allegedly, there is not enough money to do it. Many more reasons can come up with gigolos. The black list, photos and sad stories of women who fell for the bait of scammers can be found on the Internet. After all, these swindlers not only “pump out” money from ladies in love, but it happens that they simply rob them, after which they disappear in an unknown direction. Apparently, they are sent in search of a new victim.
The now popular writer Lena Lenina has a book called "Alfonses, or Love Swindlers". It very vividly describes all sorts of tricks of selfish men, their manipulations, intrigues and other interesting things that may wellbecome useful to ladies who do not want to fall into the trap of a gigolo. Is it possible to somehow recognize such an “instance” at the first stages of acquaintance? If you're careful, you can. After all, who are Alphonse? These are men who know how to please women above all.
Behind the beautiful compliments with which they skillfully (and even professionally) shower their "chosen one", the young lady may not even pay attention to the completely harmless questions of the gentleman about where and with whom she lives, where she works, how much she earns and etc. It may seem to her that he is simply very interested in her. And she would be right if her answers satisfied his selfish motives. Therefore, you should not post information of this nature when meeting. The best option would be avoiding a direct answer. You don’t want to learn from personal sad experience who the gigolos are? And such inquiries, thinly veiled as simple curiosity, may well indicate that a real gigolo is sitting in front of you.
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