Mama's boy: recognize and run away

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

It has long been no surprise for women that there is such a type of man as "mama's boy". And recently, there are more and more individuals of the stronger sex falling under this classification. No one can really explain why this happens, but the fact that his mother is to blame for the infantilism of his own offspring is an indisputable fact. Especially gentle "copies" of sons are nurtured by mothers who do not have a husband. So they "shift" all their love and excessive care to the child.

These women rush about with their offspring like hens and eggs:

feed, drink, iron a shirt, wash underpants with socks, put to sleep and sing a lullaby. And all this is mixed with lisping, despite the fact that the child has long since passed the age of five and has become a fully mature, independent man. But is it really so independent if mommy controls him everywhere and everywhere? “Don’t go there, don’t be friends with that, don’t do this …” It often comes to the point that the mother decides where herson to study and whom to marry. And whether to marry at all…

Even if the sissy decides to start his own family, the parent will not give him peace anyway. Especially if, contrary to her instructions, he married not the girl she chose for him. After all, how is it? She raised her boy, brought up, cherished and cherished, did not sleep at night, and then some kind of "flip-tail" came and took away the treasure. But what about a glass of water in old age? And a hidden (and sometimes open) war begins against the daughter-in-law, who washes the dishes the wrong way, irons the shirts the wrong way and, in general, does not love her son. Because only a mother can truly love. And she systematically begins to set her overgrown baby against his wife.

A man, of course, can resist at first, but soon he suddenly discovers how right his mother was, and comparisons

own wife and parent will not keep you waiting long. A woman whose husband is a sissy will either have to take the reins and become better than her mother-in-law (which, in principle, is impossible from the point of view of her husband), or file for divorce.

The second, alas, happens much more often, because what sane woman wants to take care of and babysit an adult man who can’t even find food in the refrigerator, let alone help with the housework?

Therefore, if you do not want to connect your life with a man for whom the word of your mother is the ultimate truth, you should learn to identify it even before a serious relationship begins. This can be done sometimes immediately, sometimes after some time, because now infantile men are able to disguise themselves as reliable and self-confident. So, if your new acquaintance is a sissy, his signs will be as follows:

• He mentions his mother (mommy, mother, mother, etc.) too often and with special tenderness in a conversation and can be offended and even angry at your most innocent question regarding his relationship with his parent.
• Regularly calls his mother and tells where he is, with whom and what time he will return home.
• Strives to "show" you to mom as soon as possible, so that, in case of disapproval, no more time will be wasted on you.
• He dresses and does his hair badly just because his mom likes it.
• Treasures some socks, scarves, and reindeer sweaters (and wears them, even if they're still from school) because mom knitted or bought them.

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  He is quite capable of giving a girl an ultimatum that he will marry her only if she performs the same functions and in the same order as his beloved parent after the wedding.

• He makes almost no effort to win you over, because he is a priori sure that only the girl who will take care of him with the same zeal as mother is worthy of him. If you don’t, then you will be a bad wife and therefore do not deserve to go to a restaurant (good boys dine at home), flowers (they are given only to mom on March 8) and gifts (theironly mom gives, in the form of sweaters with deer).