Eiser's system - benefit or harm?

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

Do you know that the Eiser system exists only in the Russian-language search engine. We consider this the Japanese method of educating preschool children. But any search engine on foreign sites does not find anything for the query "Azer's system." Wikipedia doesn't know this either. And in Japan there is no such system, in all likelihood. This involuntarily begs the question: "What is Eiser's education system?"

In Eastern countries there is a certain policy of parents in the matter of acquiring life experience by children. This is expressed in their non-intervention. For example, Japanese parents will not break up a fight by allowing the child to have their own social experience. Although, as a result of the use of a policy of laissez-faire, the Japanese consider their children the most ill-bred in the world.

Our parents, adopting the experience of Japanese, forget about the different mentality and social conditions. In addition, the Eyser system clearly exaggerates the need to lift the ban on children.

In Japan, it is not customary to restrict children in their actions, as long as it does not harm the child or other people. It is not customary to punish children by depriving them of their habitualpleasures, but punishment in a milder form exists. The upbringing system is designed in such a way that with age a person is clamped into increasingly narrow limits of behavior.

We interpret this as a complete lack of prohibitions for children under 7 years old. Imagine a situation where your child wants to stick a piece of wire into an outlet, will you let him do it? I doubt. And imagine that he falls in the middle of the store and demands a toy. He also has the right to do so. You are educating him according to this system. How would you like this?

Pampering and pampering a child are far from being the same thing. What will we achieve by allowing the child everything in a row, as the Eiser system recommends? The Internet is replete with examples of such parenting. I would not really like to be in the place of those who suffered from such children. Parents, by relieving themselves of responsibility, undoubtedly make life very easy for themselves. After all, it is much easier and more convenient to say that we are raising a child without prohibitions than to teach him proper behavior.

The Eiser system has a great replacement that will definitely fit every country and every parent. Don't forbid your child anything! Do not Cry! Don't scold him for trying to do something wrong! A child is a small PERSON! Do you like bans or shouts at you? Of course not. Let’s then instead of the words “you can’t do this”, “don’t dare to do this”, “don’t do it like that”, we will say “it’s not good to do this, because …”. Each of us knows why this or that is bad or impossible, but the child does not know this yet. Explainhim it. Use simple and clear words to explain, give examples and let the child look at the situation from the other side.

A child should learn not only from the experience of parents. He must comprehend many things himself. But also giving up the role of a parent in education, giving him the opportunity to do everything, cannot be a great option. You must guide your child, explain to him, prevent actions that harm him and others. Don't forbid! Help me understand that doing this is not good!