2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21
Love for all living things is inherent in man by nature itself. Someone cannot get past a homeless puppy, while someone prefers to have exotic animals at home or keep an aquarium. There are people who love cats. The psychology of those who are not indifferent to feline representatives also has its own characteristics. After all, a conscious choice of a four-legged friend can tell a lot about the character of its owner. As the famous writer M. Twain said, cats differ from other pets in that they cannot be forced to obey by any means. These animals will never become slaves. And under no circumstances will cats do anything they don't want to do.
People who love cats
The psychology of dogs, unlike meowing animals, is simple and understandable. They quickly learn to follow commands, lend themselves well to training. Maybe that's why ardent cat lovers like the wayward nature of a cat more. She is independent, stubborn. The cat prefers to walk by itself, as was noted in the famous work of R. Kipling. But despiteon this, is able to truly become attached to a person. And, having become his friend, not involuntarily, but of his own free will, he can fall in love sincerely and forever.
When we get a cat in the house, we automatically strive to communicate with wildlife. In fact, this is a small tiger that you can pick up and caress. Mostly women prefer furry pets, but it happens that a man loves cats. Our psychology is arranged in such a way that sooner or later we all strive to create a family and a cozy hearth. And the purr is a symbol of domestic well-being, tranquility and reliability. A soft creature curled up in a ball, purring peacefully on the sofa, gives a feeling of warmth and a stable way of life. Love for a cat often characterizes a man as an exemplary family man, a caring father. Such a person appreciates the comfort in the house, feminine affection, order and cleanliness, a delicious dinner. If a guy prefers cats to dogs, then he will look for a life partner to match. Bright, beautiful, graceful and independent. But at the same time affectionate, tender and able to give love.
Choosing a pet and being responsible
The psychology of cats is so unique that their upbringing requires a special approach. Deciding to have this semi-wild animal in the house, you must remember the great responsibility. After all, this is not a hamster that will live only a few years. When you get a cat, you should be aware that it will become the owner's companion for life. You will have to put up with her behavior, with hair on all surfaces, including clothes and food. Besides, thispleasure is not cheap. The animal needs proper food, care, it can get sick. And then you will have to spend a lot on the services of a veterinarian. But if all these worries do not scare you, then you belong to the category of people who are called "cat lovers". Your psychology is arranged in such a way that any whims of a pet will be perceived as little pranks. And communication with him will give only positive emotions and charge you with a good mood.
Character and temperament of cats
Cats live by instinct. German scientists have revealed an interesting pattern. It turned out that the psychology of cats and cats is determined by their color. Striped animals are more independent, they are very reluctant to make contact with humans. They prefer to be left to their own devices. Black cats, on the contrary, are sociable, love affection. White felines are monogamous. They become attached to only one owner, giving him all the attention, allowing only him to stroke himself. But black and white are usually harmless, adore children, allowing them to squeeze themselves. Tricolors and redheads are somewhat phlegmatic, a little odd, slow. But these statements are not an axiom and do not always correspond to reality. The psychology of cats, the nature and characteristics of their behavior also depend on what type of temperament the animal belongs to from birth. And other qualities are added to this base as they grow older. There are four such types:
- Sanguine. Such a cat quickly gets used to the new environment, loves children. She is easygets along with other pets, mobile and moderately active.
- Choleric. The psychology of cats and cats of this type is characterized by rapid activity. Their mood changes quickly, they are quick-tempered and somewhat nervous, meow loudly, growl. The pet will not tolerate resentment or hold back emotions. He will prefer to immediately hit back with his paw or bite the opponent. Be it a person or another animal. You never know what to expect from him. It is more interesting for such a cat to live with an owner who leads an active lifestyle and has an explosive temperament himself. In a house where there are small children, you need to keep your eyes open with choleric cats. A child can unknowingly pull the tail, press down on the paw, for which he will be rebuffed.
- Phlegmatic. This is a calm, slightly slow and unflappable cat. She rarely shows emotions, reserved and very reserved. She may sleep around the clock or watch listlessly as attempts are made to get her into the game. Such a cat will appeal to homebodies, elderly or busy people who are rarely at home.
- Melancholic. This is a very sensitive and touchy animal. You can’t shout at him, let alone punish him physically. Cats are shy, afraid of strangers or new interior items. The psychology of melancholic cats is distinguished by great devotion and love for humans. But they stop their choice only on one owner, who becomes their friend, because they are monogamous.
Knowing the characteristics of temperament will help you choose the right pet, because the beginnings of distinctive features are clearly visible already at a very young age. Character is shown inthe process of communicating with brothers and sisters, with a cat mother. It is enough just to observe the behavior and play of the baby to understand what his temper is.
Relationships between dogs and cats
The relationship of these completely different animals is well described in the work of K. Lorenz "A man finds a friend." The book, in which the psychology of cats and dogs is revealed from all sides, must definitely become a desktop book. Especially if a person plans to have these pets at home at the same time. The author describes in detail life situations from personal experience, gives recommendations and advice. Differences between the animals of the sea. Take, for example, body language, a large part of which is given to the tail. The dog, wagging its tail, shows joy, greeting, readiness to make contact. And the nervous trembling of the cat's tail signals displeasure and irritation. The first meeting of seemingly irreconcilable enemies is the most important. Depending on how it passes, further relations of animals will be built. But friendship between them can arise, especially if they are accustomed to each other from a very early age. Even if you manage to establish a connection and the pets are already sleeping and playing together, this does not mean that they should have everything in common. Each of them needs their own personal space, a separate corner with a bowl for food, as well as an equal amount of attention from the owner. Purrs are more prone to territorial aggression, that's how cat psychology works.
The book also describes how best to teach animals to live together, so that howyou can less traumatize the psyche of both. It is believed that the settlement in the house of a cat to an already living dog is the most favorable situation. After all, dogs are less worried about their territory and more obedient, if, of course, they are properly educated. It has also been observed that larger breeds of dogs become attached to a small kitten more quickly. Animals who love each other begin to care for each other, sleep together, eat from the same bowl.
What do cat poses say
It is generally accepted that felines are more loved by straightforward, frank and fair people. Cats, whose psychology is arranged differently from dogs, can become their true friends, but not slaves. You can find a common language with a cat if you know the features of its behavior. Pay attention to everything: posture, manner of movement, voice, ears and tail. Cats use more than just sounds to express needs. More often they prefer to communicate using gestures and facial expressions, and sometimes a whole set of signs.
Love for cats, whose psychology has not yet been completely unraveled by anyone, is an incentive to study the habits of the beast and understand it. Cat poses are graceful and can tell a lot about her:
- Calmness, observation - the cat sits with its tail wrapped around its paws.
- Greeting - the cat rubs against the owner's legs, stepping from paw to paw.
- Love and affection - rubs the muzzle and mustache on the face or legs of the owner.
- Thoughtful - lying on the back.
- Warning - sharp tail wagging.
- Intimidation –arched back.
- Threat - fur on end, legs straight and outstretched.
The cat's tail raised up indicates friendliness, lowered and tousled - about confusion. Tail pointing down and tapping on the floor - the cat is frightened. Nervous twitching of the tail from side to side, whipping it on the sides means the highest degree of aggression.
Dominance and the desire to suppress the aggression of the enemy is rarely seen among females. A mother cat, if her babies are in danger, will fight to the bitter end. She will give her life for kittens, not retreating even before the most terrible and major enemy. But cats often in the struggle for the location of a young cat can fight fiercely, figuring out who is stronger. The pose, when they stand motionless nose to nose, expresses extreme concentration. The slightest movement of the enemy or a sharp extraneous sound can be the impetus for a brave battle. But one of the cats sooner or later fails. He lies on his stomach, pressing his body and head tightly to the ground, and stretches his paws with claws towards the enemy. His posture expresses both submission and menace. The winner in this case leaves first, demonstrating his dignity and superiority. Friendly relations between adult males are almost impossible.
The psychology of cats' behavior towards humans at home is somewhat different. They rarely express extreme aggression towards their owner. But a stranger can be scratched or bitten if, after warning signs, he did not retreat. More often, aggression is provoked by fear, stress or confusion. Completetrust in the owner and others is manifested in a pose on the side or back, when the stomach is open. The cat's eyes are usually closed, she is relaxed, napping and not at all averse to being petted.
Conversation with a cat: sounds and facial expressions
Despite the fact that cats prefer to communicate with gestures, the most talkative of them constantly purr. The cat's tongue has more than 16 signals of various ranges, including ultrasound, which is inaccessible to the human ear. Mothers often communicate with kittens with such inaudible sounds. The usual "meow" may differ in timbre, tone. Having learned to speak like a cat, a person will be able to convey the necessary information to the pet with similar sounds. For example, by quietly hissing at a cat when it does something forbidden, you can let it know that this is not allowed. The psychology of cats is arranged in such a way that not all of them are too talkative. Some animals make only a few quiet sounds in their entire lives. Others, on the contrary, constantly scream, purr, growl, hiss and grumble. Here are some cat words that can tell about the mood of a furry friend:
- Hissing is a warning signal.
- Snorting - surprise, desire to distract the enemy, confusion.
- Low-range rumbling - ready to defend.
- Grumbling is a threat and a warning.
- Teeth-clattering, smacking and bleating - desire to catch prey or disappointment if this was not possible.
- Purr - the cat is happy with life.
- Cooing short "meow" - the joy of meeting,greeting.
- Vibrating with a hoarse "meow" - friendly attitude, gratitude.
Each drawn-out “mi-ayy”, “meow-y” in most cases expresses requests, a call for help, a complaint or crying. The degree of talkativeness of a cat depends not only on its individual character, but also on the breed. The psychology of Thai cats, as well as their Siamese and Oriental counterparts, is different in that they are very talkative and sociable. British and European Shorthair cats, on the other hand, are silent.
Mimicry in all cats is very expressive due to the high degree of mobility of the muscles of the muzzle and head. Cat's eyes are a mirror that reflects the mood and state of mind of the pet. Half-closed eyelids, slow blinking mean calmness, peace, relaxation. Wide eyes - interest, concern. Dilated pupils show fear. A squint at point-blank range expresses a warning and a challenge. Sharply constricted pupils indicate the maximum concentration. If the cat looks away, then it is ready to obey. A direct look into the eyes of the owner and ears stretched forward express interest, a request, a desire to communicate or eat. Ears dropped to the sides indicate aggression, while ears pulled back and lowered indicate that the cat is frightened. If the tips of the ears tremble nervously, then this is a sign of insecurity.
Education and training, punishment and encouragement, play and toys
If a woman or a man loves cats, whose psychology is so unpredictable, then they, of course,want to play with them. Cats are hunters by nature and know how to have fun without a person. Rustling pieces of paper, balls, laces, curtains and other pieces of furniture and interior are the best toys for them. Running, jumping, trying to catch its own tail, the kitten develops the body and skeleton, strengthens the muscles. When playing with a cat, you should remember that she is used to dominating. And too aggressive, in her opinion, attacks on the part of the owner can forever discourage the cat's interest in playing with him. A bow on a string or a lace in her understanding is prey. And the victim cannot act fearlessly, attack or fight back. Do not allow the cat to play with hands and feet. The habit of scratching and biting can easily become ingrained, which is extremely unpleasant and dangerous for young children.
When raising a cat, you must remember that it will not be possible to train and achieve its complete obedience. She does not care about prohibitions, she does not respond to physical punishment, continuing to do what she likes. It is important to teach the animal to relieve himself in a special tray, absorb food and sleep in strictly designated areas. Here, all actions should be aimed at developing conditioned reflexes. For example, if a cat has got into the habit of walking past the tray or to another corner, then it should be purposefully led to the place day after day, waiting for it to do its business. We must not forget about the encouragement, the cat needs to be caressed, stroked and praised. In a few days, and in extreme cases weeks, the cat will get used to it.
Territory and social aspects of behavior
The psychology of cats is designed so that the territory forthem is very important, because they are antisocial animals. They mark their favorite places, thus protecting their personal space from uninvited enemies. Despite this, in nature, cats can live in groups or colonies, gathering according to their interests. For example, feed together, sunbathe in the sun. As a rule, there is no friendly communication between them. Each individual retains its individuality, trying to retire to sleep in a secluded place, choosing separate paths for walking and places for reflection, favorite trees for sharpening claws.
Hunting and food
And although cats are simply amazing hunters, they do not need to hunt at home. As they do not need to protect their homes. The owner is the provider and protector, to whom the cat treats more like a parent. This is manifested in the way she shifts from foot to foot, gently rubs against her legs, showing her location. This is how a kitten communicates with its mother. Hunting for a domestic cat is entertainment, an instinctive desire. She can catch a mouse, a fly or a bird. Quite rarely, a cat dares to attack a huge rat with sharp teeth that can hurt her. The domestic cat brings its prey into the house. This is a gift for the owner, an expression of true friendship and care.
Cat mother and offspring
Cats are very caring and devoted mothers. They constantly lick the kittens, stimulating the blood circulation and breathing of the babies. Animals raise their offspring in the process of playing, silent communication. If there is a threat of danger, then the cat can dragchildren elsewhere. But the relationship between mother and child does not last long. As soon as the kitten grows up, the cat loses interest in him, perceiving him as a young male or female.
Regardless of which pet you decide to settle next to you, remember that the psychology of cats, dogs and other animals is arranged differently. And, before bringing a new tenant into the house, it would be nice to study the main features of the behavior of the future pet, so that in the future his pranks, play or aggressive behavior would not become an unpleasant surprise. Once in a new home, the kitten feels defenseless, insecure. He needs someone who will help him get comfortable in a new place, protect him from dangers and become a real senior comrade. And cats never forget kindness, affection, as well as pain, fear. And all these feelings are usually associated with a person. Take care of the cat, caress it, do not force it, do not punish it too severely, and it will become your true friend for many years.
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