The wedding night of Muslims according to all the canons of the Koran

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

For modern society, such a thing as "wedding night" has long been purely symbolic. Intimate relationships before marriage are quite normal, because people want to get to know each other better. True, not everyone is free to use such democratic principles. A Muslim wedding night is practically one of the most important events in life.

As you know, in Islam, the beginning of sexual relations between husband and wife must take place in compliance with all religious rules. The first intimacy, according to the Koran, must be imbued with an atmosphere of sacredness. Muslim wedding night, as well as intimacy in general, in Islamic culture has a high spiritual meaning. In addition, subject to the most stringent standards, the newlyweds may not even know each other. Under such circumstances, the bride and groom will be extremely shy, embarrassed and tense.

To make the atmosphere more comfortable, the first wedding night for Muslims takes place with the obligatory observance of the following rituals:

1. Before intimacy, the husband should put his hand on his wife's head and say affectionate words with the obligatory addition of the phrase "in the name of Allah" at the end of his speech. After that, the newlyweds perform two ritual prayers. Then the husband reads another one, in which he asks Allah to bless him and his wife, their family life, and in case of divorce, forgive him so that he and his wife remain on good terms.
2. Wedding nights in the Caucasus and the East are rarely held according to all religious canons. By tradition, the bride must be a virgin, but in modern times this requirement is not so strictly enforced. The ritual of hanging a sheet with traces of blood in the morning has survived only in some regions.



3. The Muslim wedding night suggests that the groom must first present the bride with many different sweets and drinks. It is desirable that honey be among the first, and milk among the second.
4. Muslim wedding night is a time not only for intimacy, but also for communication of the newlyweds. A husband should be affectionate and gentle with his wife, because, as a rule, a girl behaves timidly and constrainedly.
5. The Quran forbids indecent intimate relationships. A woman is also not recommended to behave indifferently and coldly. In no case should you push your husband away, because this can lead to unpleasant consequences.
6. In the morning, the spouses must perform the ritual of washing and only after this start eating. On this day, it is recommended to set the table and invite relatives.

Coming into intimacy,young people should have these intentions:

- do not commit adultery;

- a man should not stare at strangers women;

- give birth to offspring that will serve Allah.

If a person enjoys intimacy with the right intentions, then he receives not only pleasure from intimate life, but also a reward - sawab. Love is the most important foundation of family life. The Qur'an encourages the wife and husband to be merciful, forgiving and patient. Regardless of religion and place of residence, happiness can only be found with the person for whom you have the strongest and deepest feelings.