How to hug a girl: instructions and tips

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

Want to hug a girl for the first time but don't know how? Or maybe you've been together for a long time, but still haven't figured out how to determine the moment when you should use cute hugs? Let's try to figure out how to properly hug a girl with whom you start a relationship, continue or are still only friends.

Choose the right moment

The first and most important rule of a good hug is timing. It is very difficult for many young people to determine when a girl is ready for this. And often such a problem arises: the guy hugged the girl around the waist, and she called him names and ran away.

What is the right moment:

• When you first met. This hug will be interpreted as "I'm glad to see you" or "I missed you so much." But do not lean on the fragile girl with all your weight, just lightly embrace as a friendly gesture.
• Emotional moment. The girl complains to you about something or vice versa shared a joyful event - time for hugs. And again remember that a girl is not a man and clapon the back from all over shouting "hooray, well done" - not a good idea.
• Goodbye. Again, a nice gesture that you will miss your companion.

How to understand that a girl wants to be hugged?

If we want to understand how to properly hug a girl, then we should realize the most important thing - her body language. It is very important to catch non-verbal (that is, not those that speak in words) signs that the girl is already dreaming that you would press her to you. We attach a list of signs below, but remember that these are only stereotypes, and each girl is an individual:

1. The girl looks at you, smiles and looks into your eyes.
2. Twists her curls around her finger, touches her hair, as if drawing your attention to them.
3. When you are sitting together, she tries to close the distance with her feet and hips pointing in your direction.
4. Refers to you while speaking. Can lightly touch or pat on the shoulder when you are joking.
5. Closing the distance with requests to rate her perfume or beads.

How to understand that a girl does not want to be hugged?

To successfully understand how to hug a girl, you must also understand when a girl is not ready to cuddle. And if in cases with a long relationship you can already roughly understand the mood of a girl, then with new acquaintances there may be difficulties.

The girl turns away and does not look into your eyes? Stepping back as you close the distance? Her lips are compressed and she does not laugh atyour jokes? Warning signs, but do not yet mean that you are disgusting to the girl. It is possible that she believes that a guy and a girl only hug after a long acquaintance, and it's just not the time yet.

Forcibly hugging a girl is not only wrong, but it can completely destroy the relationship between you.

Hug Tips

Supplement the article with some tips on how to hug a girl:

• Remember hygiene products. After sports, you need to take a shower, otherwise you can scare away the lady with "aromas".
• Don't jump on a girl all of a sudden. Hugging is a smooth process.
• Make contact, listen to the girl and what she says.
• Don't hug too long unless you are a couple in love.
• Don't pull your hands back abruptly.

Many girls don't really like hugging at all. It's worth finding out if the girl is gentle with you but doesn't respond to hugs.

For couples who are already in a long-term relationship, it is usually not difficult to understand when one of the parties needs support. However, if you have problems with this, then try the trial and error method. If a girl says that she does not want to hug, it does not mean that she has stopped loving you or is cheating on you. It is likely that she is used to experiencing some emotions inside herself, and you are disturbing her cocoon. But she will gladly share the joyful moments with you. Hug more often - it brings you closer!