How to start a conversation with a guy?

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

We are all different, and if someone communicates with the opposite sex with a bang, then for others to squeeze out at least an elementary “hello” becomes an insurmountable problem. Increased shyness and tightness can be characteristic of both men and women of different age categories. But today we will talk about youth, about boys and girls. Or rather, about how to start a conversation with a guy for a girl who is not distinguished by courage and looseness.

For example, you see a guy for the first time, but something tells you: this person can change your life for the better. Assess the situation and act creatively. You will be afraid, shy, complex later, after. And now - imbued with one thought: “If we don’t get to know each other, I won’t talk - he will disappear into the crowd, and we will never see each other again!” The best motivation for your further actions, dear lady, and no need! And then - according to the circumstances.

Some recommendations:

1. How to start a conversation with a guy if you are traveling in transport? It's hard to imagine a more ideal opportunity! The crowd is your ally. You can ask permission to hold on to his elbow, making a grimace of helplessness and confusion on your face, batting your eyelashes for persuasiveness. As silly as it looks, it will work, you can be sure! After all, you will touch on one of the main psychological male "fads": with your request, make it clear that you see in a young man a strong, self-sufficient individual capable of protecting a weak woman. And if the guy is sitting, ask permission to sit on his lap! Believe me, you only need to gain courage for the first phrase: “Sorry, I’m so tired (at sports training, at dance classes, running around shopping, looking for a runaway dog - in a word, compose as believably as possible), I don’t have the strength to stand, and warmer together (if winter) … ". And then communication with the guy will go by itself. After all, now you are young, and youth in itself is a charm, plus some tricks of owning cosmetics … A young man will be pleased with the attention from a pretty stranger. If he himself is not shy and not pinched, an interesting lyrical adventure is guaranteed for you!
2. Do you see a nice young man just on the street or outside the cafe window? Well, there are many ways to start a conversation with a guy. If you are with a girlfriend, you can come as close as possible (without violating decorum, of course!) And, for example, with a ringing contagious laugh (but not vulgar laughter) to attract his attention. Look at him several times, trying to catch his eye and slightly noticeably smile at him personally. Having noticed such obvious signs of attention, the young man himself will not fail to get to know you. Another way to start a conversation with a guy in this situation is to walk up to him and say thatyou and your girlfriend argued about something and ask to become a judge in your dispute (we can talk about a sensational film and its director, about some book, an athlete, etc.). The important thing here is the first step. And then things will go by themselves.
3. The young man you like lives next door or studies with you in the same institution, do you go to a common gym, do you have a real opportunity to meet him several times a day on the streets, in corridors and other places? Watch him, find out his daily routine. Try to catch his eye often. At the same time, it is desirable that you have something that distinguishes you from the crowd, this will make getting to know a guy easier. For example, bright clothes, long flowing hair… Seeing you several times a day in different situations, the guy will get used to you, will begin to subconsciously perceive you as “his own”. After a week and a half of such meetings, once again passing by, say hello to him. Do it in a casual, businesslike tone, as a matter of course. And so for a couple of days. Soon the young man will be the first to greet you, then the tone can be made warmer, more sincere, and this will be the next stage of your task - how to start a conversation with a guy. In such a situation, he himself will take the next step towards rapprochement!

Last notes

What we have advised you in this article, dear girls, is probably only a hundredth of the possible options for action. You can contact the guy about your mobile phone, referring to its malfunction, you canask for directions or find out what time it is, ask about the breed of his dog or ask him to hold your leash while you tie your shoelaces or fasten an unbuttoned boot at the wrong time…

The main thing - do not be afraid, do not shy away. And when the conversation started - try to behave naturally, and unobtrusively let the young man understand that you like him.

More romance in your life!