Virgin at 25: everything has its time. The benefits of sex life for women

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

Even though Orthodoxy is actively lobbied in Russia, progress does not stand still, and sex education continues. In particular, the benefits of sexual activity for women are evaluated. And more and more people are realizing that her needs take precedence over the old morality of keeping one's virginity.

Virgin Club

Ever since the sexual revolution thundered, girls began to choose at what age it is better to lose their virginity. There are many supporters of sexual freedoms. But there are also people who adhere to other principles or who turned out to be a virgin after 25 years for some reason. It is noteworthy that there are many of them, and clubs of such people have even been opened on the Russian Internet more than once. They discuss the main issues faced by virgin girls at 25.

Main problems

And in the first place is the social issue. Previously, a girl at the age of 25 was considered an old maid, and even earlier, the vow of celibacy was valued by the church. Modern Russian societyis a mixture of traditions from different eras. But for the most part, a woman who waits a long time for her only one is perceived with disdain. Problems arise - how to find someone who shares such beliefs, how to find a real man for a girl at 25 years old. Questions also arise regarding the impact of such a period of abstinence on the psyche and physiology. After all, initially nature conceived that a girl is able to perform a reproductive function from the moment of puberty. And it comes at the age of 16 in girls.

When they lose their virginity

According to official figures, girls in modern society do not seek to have sexual relations as early as possible. Only 15% have their first sexual contact during adolescence. But as a rule, it is in the nature of an experiment, not bringing much pleasure. There is a time for everything.

As a rule, girls use this experience to awaken sexuality in themselves, to awaken attraction. After it, most often there is a long abstinence, since they have not matured before leading a full sexual life. The principle of “everything in its time” applies to young men as well. After the first sexual intercourse, they have a lull. And full-fledged sexual contacts begin at 17-20, when they enter new educational institutions.

The danger of late virginity

As a rule, residents of Russian cities at 22 already have sexual experience, several partners. And about 20% of females remain virgins at 25. Sexologists say that with the onsetsexual life in the last category of women, the development of sensuality slows down somewhat in comparison with those who have lost their virginity before this age. As a rule, former virgins at 25 years old do not experience much pleasure from intimate life for another two or three years.

At the same time, sometimes they are alone. Statistics say that only 18% of virgins at the age of 25 end up getting married. And this is typical for most countries of the world. For this reason, the requests of girls at 25 years old, when they are still virgin, are filled with some anxiety.

Also, for some reason, male representatives have a mistrust towards those who at that age have not yet had sexual intercourse. Even unconsciously, they may distrust virgins at 25, suspecting them of deceit.

Somewhat shocking were the results of research in this area. Men under hypnosis were asked about virgins at age 25. And most of them answered that they did not want to get involved with such women, because they suspected them of not being sincere.

Male avoids contact with females, whose sexuality doubts. Intimacy for most men plays an important role. For this reason, those who are excluded from sex, they consider suspicious and unattractive. They consider late deflowering as a sign of asexuality, they believe that this is why such a girl has been single for a long time.

In addition, society puts pressure on women who have lost theirvirginity. And a woman can become depressed for this reason. As psychologists say, this problem is common.

Is the norm achieved

Sometimes late virginity is associated with delayed hormonal, psychological development. However, over time, such a woman can reach the norm. And someone from this category at an early age is attracted. And he understands that with the onset of sexual activity, their studies and work will suffer. And they resort to abstinence until they find the perfect moment.

Effect on the psyche

Also, prolonged abstinence can lead to low self-esteem. After all, the whole surrounding society inspires inferiority to a virgin at 25 years old. And often the pressure is experienced with difficulty, interest in life, self-esteem is lost. Gynecologists can also be tactless. Such girls can hardly share this secret with anyone, as few people support them.

Myths

In Russian society, there is a myth that girls begin their sexual life early. But as stated above, this is not the case. Until the age of 16, 1 out of 4 schoolchildren entered into sexual contact, and in the student environment - every second. The age of onset of intimate life depends on how prosperous the family is, intellectual abilities, self-esteem and the level of education.

The next myth is that women's hymens get thicker over time, and later loss of virginity will be even more painful. But this is a gross misconception based onignorance. The density of the hymen is different for everyone, and this does not depend on the age and other characteristics of the person. This is an innate characteristic. And if the hymen was elastic at 18, it remains so for life.

The fact is that sexual contact at an early age is harmful to the body. The hymen protects the body from infections during the formation of microflora in the vagina. And as a rule, stabilization occurs by the age of 18. Also, the epithelium in the vagina during adolescence is thin. Its formation ends by the age of 18. For this reason, it will not be difficult to injure him during sex. This can eventually lead to inflammation, adhesions and infertility.

Previously, the prevailing view was that migraines were a consequence of late virginity. Doctors also said that acne is actively appearing in virgins at 25. But in fact, such phenomena are provoked by hormonal disruptions. And they have nothing to do with the fact that a woman has a hymen.

The myth is the opinion that in the absence of sexual life and the gynecologist does not need to go. After all, a visit to this doctor is necessary for the prevention of many ailments. With the onset of menstruation, it is necessary to go to the gynecologist at least once a year.

About deflowering

A virgin at 25 should remember that the first sexual intercourse is painful. And if the vessel is damaged, profuse bleeding may begin. But if a woman is aroused, there is a lot of lubrication, there will be less pain and blood. Also defloration can be dangerous. And if the pain and blood stay longer than 2 days,this is a direct indication for visiting a gynecologist - perhaps the walls of the vagina have torn.

It is best to choose an experienced first partner. He will be able to excite the girl.

It is widely believed that pain will be less if defloration occurs in the bath. Indeed, warm water relaxes muscles and nerves. Spasms in this case are less, and the pain will decrease. At the same time, the water will wash away the grease.

"If the first time is carried out using a condom, there will be more pain," says the following misconception. It probably once was. But modern products are impregnated with grease and do not affect defloration.

It is a myth that it is impossible to get pregnant during the first sexual contact.

You also need to know that modern sexologists consider late virginity as a deviation, as it is believed that it increases the risk of mental disorders, as well as changes in the genital organs.

Stories

Some virgins at age 25 and later hide the fact that they still have a hymen from their suitors for fear of scaring them away. Often they do not marry for a long time, and sometimes they never marry. Someone wants to have only one partner and becomes very strict about the selection of candidates.

They become white crows. At first, the future late virgin notices that the guys are glad that she has not yet had a partner, they cherish the hope of becoming the first. However, the older the age, the less such enthusiasm occurs. ATAs a result, the fact of virginity begins to be carefully hidden. And if it opens, this is followed by a lecture on how sex is necessary for he alth and a proposal to "solve the problem." But the late virgin still continues to look for a candidate for husbands. Gynecologists begin to meticulously interrogate why a virgin is not yet married, society is also actively asking such questions, increasing the pressure on a woman.

In some cases, religious beliefs affect the fact of long-term preservation of virginity. And even if a girl is attracted, she continues to endure. This is most clearly manifested in Muslim women, in families with strict morals. Such girls yearn for relationships, their body asks for natural physiological acts, but under strict upbringing, they continue to leave themselves with nothing, hoping for a solution to this situation one day.

Complexes

And someone is hindered by complexes. And even in adolescence, such a future late virgin will not think about "storage" of the hymen before the wedding. As a rule, her acquaintances lose their innocence at the end of school, but she is in no hurry. Often such a fate befalls those who were brought up in a strict family. About the 23rd birthday makes such people seriously think about their situation.

They communicate with representatives of the opposite sex, but they don’t represent themselves in an intimate relationship with anyone, it’s even unpleasant for them to do this, and communication doesn’t go beyond kisses. And men begin to react negatively to this, interrupt the relationship. And this, in turn, ismore exacerbates negative feelings, distrust of men in a virgin at the age of 25.

And she keeps looking for someone to confide in. She tries to find guarantees that he does not disappear after the first night. Often such women turn to psychotherapists in an attempt to resolve their issue. Sensuality in this category of women develops somewhat slowly, and they do not experience strong influxes of attraction.

And some women believe that sex before marriage leads to problems. It is widely believed that casual sex is dangerous, and such women are afraid to have sex before marriage.

Religious motives

And someone, under the influence of religious motives, cherishes the dream of having only one man in his life - his husband. And often such late virgins have stories of how they quarreled with their suitors on the basis of sex. They experience pain because of this, part with young people. But they try to be equal to the nuns. Often such women believe that having lost their virginity before marriage, the girl becomes unhappy.

Benefits of sex for women

In addition, sex is a natural physiological act, and its role for the body is great.

According to statistics, a woman with a regular sexual life is less likely to suffer from flu viruses, colds. Sex increases the amount of antibodies in the body by 30%.

Intimate life reduces sensitivity to pain. It's all about the hormones produced. And also for those who regularly have sex, the mood rises. This is due to the activationnervous system and parts of the brain responsible for sensuality.

Sex speeds up metabolism, helping to fight extra pounds, and also slows down the aging process. A full sex life provokes the production of collagen, as well as the hormone progesterone, which make the skin supple.