The memorable vow of the bride and groom

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

Currently, it has become not very popular to hold ordinary, classic wedding ceremonies. The future husband and wife are trying their best to make this solemn day forever remembered by both the guests and themselves. In this article, we will not give examples of the most original wedding scenarios, but will find out what the oath of the bride and groom should be given during the ceremony.

Words that have been spoken for many centuries by all those who are married, at some point lost their relevance, so now it is so fashionable to say something original, a little non-standard, but really exciting and memorable. In general, in Russia there is no such tradition as the obligatory oath of the bride and groom. This cute custom came to us from European countries, where Catholics swear in church before the Almighty that they will love each other and be faithful in any situation. The Orthodox Church denies this, referring to the fact that our Creator gave a covenant: "Do not swear." Therefore, the oath of the bride and groom was already introduced by the organizers of weddings, who tried to make the solemn day for the young more exciting and touching. Therefore no power such an oathwill not have: neither spiritual nor legal. But it's so nice to say it and hear the same in response!

Where can I find approximate words that the oath of the bride and groom contains? Now this is not such a problem. There are a huge number of wedding agencies, where professional "poeticians" will instantly write what you need. But the question is different: will the memorized oath of the groom to the bride sound as sincere and unique as the words coming from the heart would be said? And who, besides yourself, knows best those hidden strings of each other's souls, which are so necessary to touch? Therefore, if you want to keep the new tradition, then try to come up with these long-awaited words yourself.

What does the groom's oath include? It should figuratively consist of three parts. The first is the voicing of the fact that the bride is so loved and dear to the young man that he decided to live with her all his life. Naturally, all this must be expressed in the most beautiful form. The second is the part that should make not only the bride herself, but also everyone around believe in your sincerity. Prove to them that you really value this person and never offend or betray her. The third is the obligations themselves, which the oath should contain. There is no need to reduce everything to excessive seriousness, obligations can also be expressed in a joking manner, for example, “I will not scold you for new boots worth a six-month family budget”, “I undertake to let go to bachelorette parties at least once a week” andother. A similar symbolic addition of three parts is also suitable for drawing up the oath of the bride to the groom.

To somehow diversify the rather primitive retelling of words of love, you can "dilute" the whole procedure with a comic "sacrifice" of something (tear your favorite T-shirt that your soulmate did not like so much). You can also compose and sing the anthem of your new family, build a flag or coat of arms, and much more. There are a lot of ideas, so don't be lazy, approach the situation with all seriousness and humor, then the wedding will really become the main event in your life! Advice to you yes love!