The sexiest men in the world

2024 Author: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 00:21

There is a myth that the sexiest men are actors, athletes, famous musicians and other media personalities. Is this really so and what is sexuality? How does it express itself - in steel muscles, the role of a hero-lover, or, perhaps, in the intellect of a man? Let's look for answers together in our article.

What is sexy?

There are many aspects to the definition of this concept. We will give the simplest: sexuality is the charm of the opposite sex, the attraction of its representatives in appearance, manners, behavior. This seductiveness is aimed at awakening in a person one of the strongest instincts - the instinct of procreation, or, more simply, reproduction. We conclude that the sexiest men are those who are physically attracted and evoke a sexual response (in other words, desire) in women.

Thousands of years have passed since the transformation of an animal into a man, but the instinct, called by Freud libidinal, as it was, and remained the main one. This, in principle, is understandable, because if the genus does not reproduce, it dies out.

In the wild, females attract males (and vice versa) with a very strong means - a special smell. Thisa peculiar aroma drives males crazy and puts the desire to procreate in a priority place.

But what about people? Science has advanced to such an extent that we, too, can attract people of the opposite sex with the help of smell. These are artificial hormonal agents - pheromones. They are obtained from substances secreted by animals during the "mating season". But they are able to kindle intimate instincts by a maximum of 10-25%. Where can I get the other 75?

Girls are much easier in this regard. Candid clothes with a lot of tricks (push-up bras that make the chest insanely attractive, neckline), scarlet frank lips and insanely alluring perfume - this is already a big part of the sexy look. Add here a little femininity and personal sympathy + intelligence (which, however, is perfectly replaced by upbringing and knowledge of etiquette) - and an explosive mixture that strikes a man on the spot is ready.

And what about a man? The sexual body of a man is not always a guarantee of success with women, and there are still fewer opportunities to flaunt it, compared to the weaker sex. How then to be men and how to attract ladies? Consider the concept of sexuality in the male version.

Sexuality in men

Let's outline the image of the ideal guy in terms of attractiveness:

• Character. Everything is simple here. A man must be a man. With a strong character, self-confident, persistent, charming and intelligent. But in no case should one confuse self-confidence with arrogance, and perseverance with obsession.
• Appearance. The sexiest men should be well-groomed, moderately stylish, ideally with a body in good physical shape.
• General image. Unfortunately, in our time of a certain substitution of moral goods for material ones, some girls believe that a man’s we alth, an expensive phone and a status car make him insanely sexy. This is an erroneous opinion. Sexy here is not a young man, but his wallet. Male sexuality is not measured by we alth, but the status of a man still contributes some share of attractiveness.
• Behaviour. Yes, the behavior of a man is also a component of his attractiveness. We will not tell here how a man should behave, because all this is already described in the rules of etiquette. The main components of such behavior are respect and good manners, moderation and observance of the most banal rules: opening the door in front of a lady, helping to move a heavy piece of furniture or office equipment will make you a real man in the eyes of a woman.

Sexy men of the world - who are they?

Let's look at the top two popular ratings.

British magazine "Hot World" (Heat World). The first place is traditionally occupied by the famous football player David Beckham; the second - thirty-year-old actor Ryan Gosling; handsome Ryan Reynolds and Bradley Cooper took third and fourth; in fifth is Jake Gyllenhaal. It is worth noting that Robert Patisson took the sixth place here, and the handsome Johnny Depp does not give up his position in the eighth. As you can see, to understand what is male sexuality,much easier with real examples.

The famous women's publication Glamor sees the sexiest men this way. First place - the famous Mr. Fifty Shades of Gray - Jamie Dornan. Second - biker and Sherlock Holmes Benedict Cumberbatch, third - Tom Hiddleston, fourth "Edward" Patison, fifth - British actor Henry Cavill.

These very sexy men have one thing in common: they are unusual, their media presence gives them a veil of an inaccessible dream, an ideal. But this is not the main thing. Look into their eyes: what do you see? First, confidence. They are confident in themselves and their charm, and from this they are quite calm and calm. Is it only an actor or an athlete who can be sure of his demand? No. A doctor or an engineer, a teacher or a taxi driver, a manager or a programmer - all of them can also be self-confident if they love their work and have achieved success in it. We will not voice the conclusion, let everyone make it himself.

Beauty=sexy?

We smoothly approached the appearance. Is it the basis of sexuality? Handsome sexy men are not uncommon, but also not uncommon are handsome, but completely unattractive personalities. Therefore, the answer cannot be unambiguous. There are many examples when an outwardly very attractive person repels with his inner world or behavior. A lot of handsome men are known as daffodils and spend their lives in splendid isolation, while guys with a completely ordinary appearance struggle with excessive attention from fans. So appearance can becomponent of sexuality, but does not equal it. The sexiest men often have a completely ordinary appearance, remember the legendary Casanova: someone, but it’s insanely hard to call him handsome.

How to get sexy?

The first tip on how to become a sexy man will be simple truths.

• First, you need to be confident. It is unlikely that women will find attractive a man who stands huddled in a corner and is afraid to say a word.
• Second, well-groomed. A suit from the world's top designers doesn't guarantee sexiness, but worn jeans and a dirty shirt won't add it either. We need a golden mean. Yes, and the ability to wear clothes. Some people just have a gift for combining the most ordinary toilet details so that they seem to be taken from ready-to-wear mannequins.
• Thirdly, natural charm and an adequate sense of humor are always a plus. Just like intellect. If we recall the saying: "a man should be more beautiful than a monkey", then we add that he should also be smarter.

Which men are sexier, the woman decides. And intelligence + erudition, the ability to keep up the conversation are not the worst ways to win her favor.

Enemies of male sexuality

There are real enemies that can destroy male sexuality in the bud. Let's call them:

• Sloppy.
• Rude.
• Lack of sense of humor or trying to be seen as a wit with the help of petty vulgaritiesjokes.
• Self-doubt.

With these rivals of male attractiveness, there is every chance of being left alone. Fortunately, they are all afraid of willpower and are easily eliminated with its help.

Sexuality test

We bring to your attention a small test with which you can determine the relative level of sexuality. Response options: "yes" (3 points), "no" (1 point) and "maybe" (2 points).

1. Are you always picky about your clothes?

2. Do you prefer to dress in the same style?

3. Are you confident?

4. Do you suffer from excessive modesty?

5. Do you take care of your body, do you keep it in good shape?

6. Is it easy for you to talk to the girl you like?

7. Do you consider yourself charming?

8. Do you have a sense of humor?

9. Are you the soul of any company?

10. Do you think ladies should make the first move and it's up to you to decide what to do next?

11. Do you have bad habits that push others away from you?

12. Do you think that a man should provide for a family?

Test results

Let's see the results.

From 35 to 25 points.

You have a fairly high level of sexuality. Your energy is in full swing, and the fairer sex fly to you like moths. But it is worth considering: are you spraying your energy too much? Maybe you should save her for your one and only?

24 to 15 points.

Youquite sexy and charming. You don't have problems with the opposite sex. The only thing that can interfere with your acquaintance is an instant surging lack of confidence in yourself and your abilities. Forget the phrase "I'm just like everyone else, there's nothing special about me." Believe me, there is a girl who is looking for you, do not miss your and her chance for joint happiness.

14 and below points.

You are an attractive average man/boyfriend. Perhaps you are more attractive than many of your friends. The only problem is that you don't know how to show yourself. Modesty is a good quality, as long as it does not develop into insecurity and obsession with one's shortcomings.

As you can see, the sexuality test will not give you a 100% assessment of your sexuality, but it can be pretty good to tell you what you are doing wrong by reducing your own attractiveness.

Conclusions

Sexy strong men look at us from TV screens and posters. Women of all ages go crazy for them. It is very easy for insecure guys to give up on themselves against the background of their beauty, strength, energy. But it is worth understanding the main thing: the fair sex admires idols and stars. But next to them they want to see a simple, sweet guy. Becoming the best for your soul mate is not so difficult: more confidence, willpower - and you will not be left alone.